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"validation" poems
I Longed for your validation I thought that if you loved me I could start to love myself But fighting for your love only made me hate myself more. -SelfLove ComesFirst
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Jul 15, 2017
Jul 15, 2017 at 7:29 AM UTC
Love self
Ice cream is sweet and quite the treat A savory delight I crave at night At almost any time and any where, it is worth to desert for this dessert. Some keep it vanilla while others want a twist. Sometimes it's good to mix or other wise switch. Maybe you're ***** can't resist other flavored dishes? What if you were denied it or could no longer find it? *** how I'd crave its taste, but at least I'd lose weight. Other substitutes are lame and aren't quite the same. Regardless, I would survive and still be able to thrive. Why is *** so different? It's a biological need you'll probably say, so you, can't compare the two. I disagree completely. Though we'd all prefer not to be lacking, it's not as if we'd die for wanting. Additionally, people have lived ascetically and have been perfectly fulfilled and happy. Those kinds of people aren't born that way, but rather we are conditioned to be *** crazy. We are made to feel as if we are measured by who or how many we've been with. It is validation we truly desire and to know we always matter. And though *** is one of life's greatest gifts, it does not give your life an overarching bliss.
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Jul 19, 2018
Jul 19, 2018 at 6:00 PM UTC
A Sweet Gift
Just be real friend. Be who you are, and where you are at. That's enough, and it's the only way forward. Most of us have put on enough masks in our life time, to have completely forgotten our original face. We've become far too clad with the heavy coats of expectation, suffocating under the weight of the ways we think we ought to be. You can drop that garb. There's always mystery at the naked core of who you are, and that's just fine. It's not that we must rediscover some definable self, and hand that image over for validation. Rather, those solid definitions we cart around with us are heavy enough as it is, but we've continued pushing them despite the distress. We've gotten so used to that awkward play of needing to be a somebody, as if that somebody were other than who we already are. We've forgotten how to let go with all the spontaneity of a flowers growth; forgotten the beauty of our own personal bloom. That we are a fluid sweep of light and dark. That our faces, like the moons, wax and wane. You don't have to be any which way, other than the way you are. That sort of self acceptance is the innate flourish, is the fluid self cycle, is the way back into life. Don't fool yourself into believing there is a better disguise. Strip down to the bare beauty of your authentic state in this moment, and move from there.
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Mar 21, 2014
Mar 21, 2014 at 3:05 PM UTC
Authenticity
That got your attention Didn't it? Even though I am a stranger Who couldn't possibly know it to be true And worth is subjective Arbitrary Those who know you would disagree And point out your merits And you would weigh yourself To realise that not all parts are equal Who am I to say such things? And yet you take the time to read it Reread, incase you misread In reading you contemplate it's truth You are my puppet, and me your puppeteer How could you be such a sheep! Why are you amused? Why does insult carry more meaning than praise? It's easy to hurt. Sticks and stones may break your bones But words can make you think you deserved it. We are social beings and so We look for validation But insult stands out It leaves a branded mark in our brains And so we spotlight it Unfairly Unjustly It's easy to be sad. But it's fulfilling to be happy. Being positive is hard But it's worth it in the end. How could I possibly know? I couldn't. But I do. And soon you will too. What are you doing now? You are reading! Now you are smiling.
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Oct 6, 2018
Oct 6, 2018 at 9:11 PM UTC
You're Worthless
Its deeper than the olden day slavery, Because these days,the chains are unseen so getting help is difficult. Souls imprisoned in fake bodies that need validation to feel fit enough to live. Modern day slavery. Its spreading too fast,we might all fall victim. Feeling incomplete when you miss a trend that won't add any inch to your height nor value to your life; that's modern day slavery. Its so normalised,its hard to realise its actually slavery. Free yourself and take charge of your life!! Be who you are.
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Aug 13, 2016
Aug 13, 2016 at 6:15 PM UTC
Modern day slavery
Oh you a gangsta now? Let me guess cause you got those "hard" tattoos Jordans as shoes And blow more green in your in between time Oh you a gangsta now? Cause you fight a little bit Stay on that corner and quick to pollute your nation With the wicked ways of degredation Oh you a gangster now? Cause you roll with a clique To weak to stand on your own But there validation gives you the courage To steal without hesitation Peddle drugs with no reservation Take life as quick as a minute passes... Well I hope those tats come with teflon Cause while you out here playing the don There's plenty associates that'll aim at your head For your place just to save face with a few so called good men I hope that corner has insurance or at least comes with benefits Cause as past gangstas before you predicts there are only two outcomes present Lifetime in a 6x8 Or 6 feet under while your soul patiently waits the outcome of where it will spend eternity I guess this is what our forefathers gave their lives for For this ignorance of the so called gangasta
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Feb 20, 2013
Feb 20, 2013 at 9:08 AM UTC
Gangsta
Fluorescent lights absorbing. My glass cage surrounding. Smart phones and silenced minds. To strangers WiFi connection binds. Likes substitutes compliments and comments conversation. I turn myself inside out for empty validation. Cyberspace is like a vacuum, they can't hear you scream. Forced smiles, you lie and hide behind pixelated screens.
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Apr 22, 2016
Apr 22, 2016 at 12:00 PM UTC
Electromagnetic Entanglement!
Am I attractive, hot, or **** Or just a forlorn idiot flexing In order to join the *** scene? I put a towel down And set up a picnic My head spins round From the dirt they kick On my meal To make me feel Scared and alone With nowhere to roam So I stay here laying in the sun On the other side of a Gatling gun I searched for a savior Who's willing to say words To me For free My search was fruitless My eyes turned youthless I grazed in the grass As time quickly passed After I finished my food And was left there to brood I became a floating satellite That was accustomed to night Because of my frights That reflected all light Now I see ants trying to feed on my crumbs They must think I'm pretty desperately dumb To not know they enforced my segregation When I had naively sought validation I waited there silently salivating They responded by not validating It's for that bitter reason During my new season I reflect my light on the approaching ants So I may thwart their encroaching dance My humble heart yearns As I watch bugs burn They wouldn't partake in my feast So I morphed into a brutish beast Now they're here to eat what's left If they can survive my dragon's breath They put out the fire in my heart But ignited my mind My useless humanity parts As I focus on time A time that keeps passing While signs keep flashing As burning bugs dying Or sad satellites flying My life was no peaceful picnic After they noticed my sickness And left me alone For that is my home When I don't need validation anymore I search for love Unfortunately I know what's in store A picnic in the mud
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Nov 12, 2017
Nov 12, 2017 at 2:58 AM UTC
Picnic
Am I attractive, hot, or **** Or just a forlorn idiot flexing In order to join the *** scene? I put a towel down And set up a picnic My head spins round From the dirt they kick On my meal To make me feel Scared and alone With nowhere to roam So I stay here laying in the sun On the other side of a Gatling gun I searched for a savior Who's willing to say words To me For free My search was fruitless My eyes turned youthless I grazed in the grass As time quickly passed After I finished my food And was left there to brood I became a floating satellite That was accustomed to night Because of my frights That reflected all light Now I see ants trying to feed on my crumbs They must think I'm pretty desperately dumb To not know they enforced my segregation When I had naively sought validation I waited there silently salivating They responded by not validating It's for that bitter reason During my new season I reflect my light on the approaching ants So I may thwart their encroaching dance My humble heart yearns As I watch bugs burn They wouldn't partake in my feast So I morphed into a brutish beast Now they're here to eat what's left If they can survive my dragon's breath They put out the fire in my heart But ignited my mind My useless humanity parts As I focus on time A time that keeps passing While signs keep flashing As burning bugs dying Or sad satellites flying My life was no peaceful picnic After they noticed my sickness And left me alone For that is my home When I don't need validation anymore I search for love Unfortunately I know what's in store A picnic in the mud
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When did you become a stormy sea of obsession? Confining in all of your ways Renouncing all moves in any direction When one does not yield to the calls, you play Attempts to govern unclipped wings can be exhausting The very thought is so gravely insane Yet you still despondently try to cage in free spirits With those borders you set and maintain You reveal uncertainty in your own validation In the faith you hold in your own When you desperately try to close off the sky From free spirits thirsting to roam Did you know that your borders are guarded by insecurity? They are useless and protected in vain Take a look inside the cages you obsessively provide Not a single free spirit remains
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Jul 7, 2010
Jul 7, 2010 at 6:31 PM UTC
Sea of Obsession
This isn't a love that can be Put on speaker phone. We're far too silly for that. Easily saying the first thing that Comes to mind. One moment to the next, Stunned slience. Phone etiquette thrown out the window. This isn't a love that can be sat down. Kept between an ear and a shoulder. The amount of time it takes for someone to leave the room. Conducted in civil manner. Attempting not to shout, Completely losing train of thought. Not sure of validation, Our voices raise a bit. By now you should know we shouldn't have to limit ourselves like that. Denying a freedom that connects us to whom we truly are. Our quirks, general weirdness. The crazy looks from those around. The laughs that get funnier each moment that passes. By now you should know that we are the complete definition of crazy. Often appearing in person, Before one of us can hang up. Laughing hysterically, Continuing the conversation At any given time or place. This definately isn't a love that Can be placed on speaker phone If we have to applogize for what we say. Afraid to be who we really are. Isolated from who we truly are
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Oct 8, 2018
Oct 8, 2018 at 9:31 AM UTC
Speaker Phone
.....before you hurt someone else With the sharpness of. Anger. Wash your hands clean of The past we were given So that you may hold present day, Not stained by the rust Of a saddened heart. My brother, you are my best friend. You know my dark is the same as yours. We carry the memories of A tainted childhood. My brother..... Let go. Some things are better not said We cannot change them now. Nothing they could ever say Could take IT away. If it's validation, here this, "My brother, we've survived!" Look at you. So strong, And this life made you this way... Not broken, not ruined, unafraid. This weight that you carry Must be. So. Very. Heavy. My brother, Let go.
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Sep 25, 2014
Sep 25, 2014 at 10:27 AM UTC
brother, bury your hatchet.....
I was is in second grade when Emily told me "if you where born a few years back you'd be a slave" As if I hadn't looked in the mirror latley. Oh how it felt to be the only brown girl in a white school Minority Misinterpretation. A maybe Is what I was An outcast 4th grade I visit my father and his family My grandmother and aunt whisper,"Gringa" laugh laugh "Sangrona" laugh laugh My mother hispanic and my father Mexican 6th grade My best friend is disgusted because I define as Mexican yet can't seem to speak perfect Spanish 9th grade I learned that bi racially I am a mut, As if I don't have enough labels already I must prove to my friends I am white, yet hispanic to my family My second aunts snicker at my broken Spanish No need to gain their validity They can't believe my mother raised me away from their culture Despair fills their eyes as labels blur mine Must I prove myself every time? What if I'm not either or? Nor a mix Nor white Nor hispanic Nor mexican Nor latina Nor bi racial Nor sangrona I don't seek your validation but your understanding I'm not a unique exhibit Only a 16 year old girl dealing with teenage drama and high school studies A dreamer at heart An artist who loves to show it I have a name I'm more than my skin color Or that of my mother's & father's. If I'm ever asked to prove myself I will answer with only "I am already proven
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Feb 25, 2016
Feb 25, 2016 at 11:36 PM UTC
Proven
Dear ************           This is the hateful letter. This is the one in which I tell you how much of a ******** you are and how I am so much better off without you, so thanks for leaving me. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. This is where I tell you that you’re an idiot if you ever thought I depended on you for my self-worth, because I don’t need you for validation, and I never have. I was trucking along just fine before you came along, and will continue to do so without you, so you can go **** yourself.           This is the part where I call you a ******* for saying all those things you said. If you weren’t trying to hurt me, you must be an idiot to think that it was a good idea to say what you did. I’ll tell you that it ****** me off to realize that you obviously didn’t know me as well as I thought you did. It ****** me off that our communication was clearly not functioning like it should have been.           And I’ll tell you how ******* livid it makes me that you just sat there and thought and thought and ******* thought about this while I was still writing ******* poems for you. I am angry at how oblivious I was, which I also blame on you. I blame you for being so introspective and quiet, for needing to think important issues through in your head, only with yourself, before you can voice them, and I am angry because you thought and thought and ******* thought and made a decision that was logical from the inside of your head and you were confused by my reaction because, surprise! Owen’s-head-logic is not the same as Katie-is-being-broken-up-with-logic. And that’s where your speech faltered, where I stopped saying the lines that you wrote for me in your script, and that’s when all of those stupid words came tumbling out of your stupid head and things continued to not go as planned and it all eventually cumulated in this: zero contact. I know it’s not what you wanted but you’re a ******* If you were smarter about it, we may still have been talking, but you said all of the exact wrong things. So I am angry at you for hurting me with your idiotic words, but I am also angry at you for pushing me away. I may have liked to still be talking to you, but all of the **** that came out of your mouth just ruined whatever chance we could have had, so way to go. You are a ruiner - and so concludes the part where everything is always your fault.           This is the part where I understand where you’re coming from, I would have broken up with me too if I were you, I know it’s hard for you to put your words together sometimes, I know your (brutal) honesty only comes from a place of love, I know you love me, I know you miss being my friend…and so on.           That last section makes me sadder than I am willing to be at this point, so I think I’ll stick with anger for the time being and you can **** my nonexistent **** ************ Your Ex-Girlfriend.
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Jun 22, 2010
Jun 22, 2010 at 6:33 PM UTC
Love Letter XXIII - Dear ************
Dear ************           This is the hateful letter. This is the one in which I tell you how much of a ******** you are and how I am so much better off without you, so thanks for leaving me. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. This is where I tell you that you’re an idiot if you ever thought I depended on you for my self-worth, because I don’t need you for validation, and I never have. I was trucking along just fine before you came along, and will continue to do so without you, so you can go **** yourself.           This is the part where I call you a ******* for saying all those things you said. If you weren’t trying to hurt me, you must be an idiot to think that it was a good idea to say what you did. I’ll tell you that it ****** me off to realize that you obviously didn’t know me as well as I thought you did. It ****** me off that our communication was clearly not functioning like it should have been.           And I’ll tell you how ******* livid it makes me that you just sat there and thought and thought and ******* thought about this while I was still writing ******* poems for you. I am angry at how oblivious I was, which I also blame on you. I blame you for being so introspective and quiet, for needing to think important issues through in your head, only with yourself, before you can voice them, and I am angry because you thought and thought and ******* thought and made a decision that was logical from the inside of your head and you were confused by my reaction because, surprise! Owen’s-head-logic is not the same as Katie-is-being-broken-up-with-logic. And that’s where your speech faltered, where I stopped saying the lines that you wrote for me in your script, and that’s when all of those stupid words came tumbling out of your stupid head and things continued to not go as planned and it all eventually cumulated in this: zero contact. I know it’s not what you wanted but you’re a ******* If you were smarter about it, we may still have been talking, but you said all of the exact wrong things. So I am angry at you for hurting me with your idiotic words, but I am also angry at you for pushing me away. I may have liked to still be talking to you, but all of the **** that came out of your mouth just ruined whatever chance we could have had, so way to go. You are a ruiner - and so concludes the part where everything is always your fault.           This is the part where I understand where you’re coming from, I would have broken up with me too if I were you, I know it’s hard for you to put your words together sometimes, I know your (brutal) honesty only comes from a place of love, I know you love me, I know you miss being my friend…and so on.           That last section makes me sadder than I am willing to be at this point, so I think I’ll stick with anger for the time being and you can **** my nonexistent **** ************ Your Ex-Girlfriend.
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staring at the blank page i find myself thinking quite low of myself. wondering to myself absently muttering out loud as if adding more sound to the white noise will give me a sense of validation that i still exist. the hum of the laptop and turquoise hexagon sun mixes with the sound of the car doors closing outside and the people sitting in their chairs, lazing about staring at the television screens what else can i hear? closing my eyes, i stop taking a moment to let my worried mind rest forgetting about my financial crisis to bathe in the sound of my silence. with my eyes closed i type with confidence i don't fear my words when i can't see them my eyes feel hot under my dark eyelids as heavy as they are i am surprised i don't slouch and fall into slumber right here in my chair. in the second it takes to flutter open my eyes and reread the words i just wrote i have to remember to stop myself before i nitpick and change what came from my heart and at the time felt right. if only i went through life like this more often then maybe i wouldn't feel so down or hard on myself because honestly i'm not that bad nor am i as dumb or silly as i feel and maybe next time when i go ice skating i won't be such a little ***** about how i look to other people.
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Nov 6, 2012
Nov 6, 2012 at 9:07 PM UTC
self-esteem
Oversaturated in grease, Frying in the light of embarrassment, Here, Take a plate and pick off the unnecessary, With oily fingers to stuff your bellies, I give you my pleasure and you give me pain, Bite off the circuits of my love called an aorta vein, I can't sit here wondering if you love me, I need some source of validation, So stop chewing on my heart, For your own parasitic elation,
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Apr 2, 2015
Apr 2, 2015 at 1:13 PM UTC
Bacon Meat Hearts (undone)
Dear you, I want you to come closer Although I try to push you away I am awkward And the awkwardness only keeps growing The more I have, the more you loose But the more you have, the more I get The equation is complicated I don’t expect you to understand After all You never understood me either. I am there Beside you and behind you All you have to do is turn turn stealthily enough So I don’t have time to run I told you I am awkward And the awkwardness only grows I slouch, I ******* I squeak just like your bedroom door I creak unopened for centuries Unheard for decades Unseen for years Not because I’m weak but because I am awkward And the awkwardness only grows i live in a pineapple under the sea or you could say I hide Hide from you, hide from me Hide from the rest of the  reality but I am always there I always will For I have to be Don’t acknowledge me Validation is not my need But don’t forget me either For I have this hidden greed Never leave your own side I need to follow Never  leave my side either But know To me, Ignorance is a bliss For I am awkward And the awkwardness only grows
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Oct 14, 2018
Oct 14, 2018 at 1:43 AM UTC
Awkward
you can tell by the way she swings her hips and pulls your hair and licks her lips and whispers in your ear that she's easy. you'll know her by the short skirt and the tight top and the high heels, by the butterfly tattoo on her lower back and the drink in her hand. if she carries condoms or takes birth control, if she can't say no, if she takes no convincing, you'll know. she's the girl at the party who drinks the most and laughs the loudest. she's the one you discarded the first night you met her, when she gave you the only part of herself that you deemed worthwhile. you'll figure her out from the tar trails of mascara, the untouched meal, the word "worthless" carved into her thigh like a brand, marking her flesh as property to which you are entitled. pay close attention to her need for validation. a **** will have the audacity to seek your approval just because she's been told all her life that she is  nothing without your love. she will measure her worth in units of attractiveness and desirability because that is the only system she's ever been taught. you'll know she's a **** when they find the defendant not guilty, and he arrives at the ten-year reunion in a limo. you'll know she's a **** when she doesn't arrive at all. it's easy to spot a **** in a society that teaches her that her lips are for kisses and not battle cries, that her hands are meant to be cradled in yours and not ****** into the sky, that her body is your wonderland and not her home. it's hard to miss a **** in a culture that paints women as ****** objects while condemning any expression of female sexuality, that glorifies the "good girl" who becomes whole when the right man comes along and stakes his claim. the women you ****** in the lifetime before you met your wife weren't marriage material; you need a girl who's saved herself for you because a girl who lets you **** her crosses the threshold from ****** to **** in a bizarre coming of age ritual in which your **** is *so ******* important* that its temporary entrance to her body renders her worthless. you can tell she's a **** because for her, there is no right answer. you can find your **** at rallies and in body-baring photographs, alive in the anxious triumph of finding something in herself that she can love, of digging through a lifetime of rubble and reclaiming small shards of forgiveness from the dirt. her self-identified status rips away your long-established privilege of dictating who she can be and defining her worth; your resent her new autonomy. you can march beside her, or you can step aside. she has stolen back her power. she was made for revolution.
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Jan 3, 2014
Jan 3, 2014 at 6:09 AM UTC
how to spot a ****
you can tell by the way she swings her hips and pulls your hair and licks her lips and whispers in your ear that she's easy. you'll know her by the short skirt and the tight top and the high heels, by the butterfly tattoo on her lower back and the drink in her hand. if she carries condoms or takes birth control, if she can't say no, if she takes no convincing, you'll know. she's the girl at the party who drinks the most and laughs the loudest. she's the one you discarded the first night you met her, when she gave you the only part of herself that you deemed worthwhile. you'll figure her out from the tar trails of mascara, the untouched meal, the word "worthless" carved into her thigh like a brand, marking her flesh as property to which you are entitled. pay close attention to her need for validation. a **** will have the audacity to seek your approval just because she's been told all her life that she is  nothing without your love. she will measure her worth in units of attractiveness and desirability because that is the only system she's ever been taught. you'll know she's a **** when they find the defendant not guilty, and he arrives at the ten-year reunion in a limo. you'll know she's a **** when she doesn't arrive at all. it's easy to spot a **** in a society that teaches her that her lips are for kisses and not battle cries, that her hands are meant to be cradled in yours and not ****** into the sky, that her body is your wonderland and not her home. it's hard to miss a **** in a culture that paints women as ****** objects while condemning any expression of female sexuality, that glorifies the "good girl" who becomes whole when the right man comes along and stakes his claim. the women you ****** in the lifetime before you met your wife weren't marriage material; you need a girl who's saved herself for you because a girl who lets you **** her crosses the threshold from ****** to **** in a bizarre coming of age ritual in which your **** is *so ******* important* that its temporary entrance to her body renders her worthless. you can tell she's a **** because for her, there is no right answer. you can find your **** at rallies and in body-baring photographs, alive in the anxious triumph of finding something in herself that she can love, of digging through a lifetime of rubble and reclaiming small shards of forgiveness from the dirt. her self-identified status rips away your long-established privilege of dictating who she can be and defining her worth; your resent her new autonomy. you can march beside her, or you can step aside. she has stolen back her power. she was made for revolution.
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You know taking a bath when you're cold is bad for you yet you still do it. The cold will catch up to you once you're out. Unless you boil yourself to the point where you can't stand the bath water and the cold is all you crave. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. You know this anger harbouring will get you sick and at some point something will have to break. Yet you deny it and cry in surprise once you realise how ****** up your mind can get. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. You know that you not functioning without your headphones on the street is a mental deficit and you're scared of being alone. Yet whenever you say you'll go out without your headphones you can't help but connect them again to your phone. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. You know the silencing glare and the subtly swallowed hate wont be enough to fix them or you yet you take no action and only speak when the times are worst causing everything to crack up again in your dysfunctional household. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. No amount of self diagnosis with narcissism, psychosis, psychopathy or plain depression will ever soothe your need of validation. So why bother. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. Your body's stiff, you know the causes. Yet you try to dance, sing move as much as you can. Idiotic sensual slow killing. You know you're only making it worse so why keep on hurting? Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. Your blood vessels bursting under your jeans, your veins dying to pop. Yet you still walk. There's something not quite right with you. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar Your ribs cracking under the spring sun, your toes bleeding from that last run when will you understand you're marked for death when will you be done? Liar liat liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. You promised you'll shave your arms, start up another life yet you're still here. ******* around. You're nothing but a Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar.
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Mar 2, 2021
Mar 2, 2021 at 3:57 PM UTC
2nd of March, still, spring won't eat me up
You know taking a bath when you're cold is bad for you yet you still do it. The cold will catch up to you once you're out. Unless you boil yourself to the point where you can't stand the bath water and the cold is all you crave. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. You know this anger harbouring will get you sick and at some point something will have to break. Yet you deny it and cry in surprise once you realise how ****** up your mind can get. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. You know that you not functioning without your headphones on the street is a mental deficit and you're scared of being alone. Yet whenever you say you'll go out without your headphones you can't help but connect them again to your phone. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. You know the silencing glare and the subtly swallowed hate wont be enough to fix them or you yet you take no action and only speak when the times are worst causing everything to crack up again in your dysfunctional household. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. No amount of self diagnosis with narcissism, psychosis, psychopathy or plain depression will ever soothe your need of validation. So why bother. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. Your body's stiff, you know the causes. Yet you try to dance, sing move as much as you can. Idiotic sensual slow killing. You know you're only making it worse so why keep on hurting? Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. Your blood vessels bursting under your jeans, your veins dying to pop. Yet you still walk. There's something not quite right with you. Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar Your ribs cracking under the spring sun, your toes bleeding from that last run when will you understand you're marked for death when will you be done? Liar liat liar liar liar liar liar liar liar. You promised you'll shave your arms, start up another life yet you're still here. ******* around. You're nothing but a Liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar liar.
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Settle down, the court is in session, The esteemed Court of Validation, Where I stand trial for being And thus must attend this hearing To seek the sublime opinions Of the wise Jury of Champions Who've been there done that. Please lecture me on how to act, Tell me how I must dress, What to say under duress, To brandish my success, And my worth attest To finally be accepted among civilization With a stamp of approval from the Court of Validation. Here comes the verdict for the Judge to read. I'm guilty of possessing an identity. Therefore I'm sentenced to a lifetime of conformity To the status quo established by society. But Your Honor, there must be a mistake! There has to be another path to take. Sorry child, this is the only way, Or else you'd be imprisoned in the Cell of Dismay. Embrace your fate without hesitation; Indeed it's a gift from the Court of Validation.
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Aug 14, 2015
Aug 14, 2015 at 10:09 AM UTC
Court of Validation
I remember twirling around in circles, bare feet on the gray concrete floor of the one car garage. The space filling with the thick smoke from your cigar drifting about, filling both our lungs with the poisonous chemicals. My five year old self wearing a loose fitted Barbie dress, “Daddy, look at me! I’m a Princess!” I shout with laughter, posing dramatically. “Not now, the adults are talking!” You said sternly. I cower away from you and go back to my childish dancing, Oh, how badly I wanted your validation, Your love and attention. But I was a mere child, Not worthy of your time. Perhaps, that was how I learned to be silent, To be submissive. How I lost my voice, But did I ever have one to begin with? You stole my voice before I even found it. ~sdr
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Oct 15, 2021
Oct 15, 2021 at 2:40 PM UTC
Silence
Validation is feeling the purpose in your life... When I see someone smile at me...it's like a weight has been lifted I feel uplifted... When man sees desire in me....I see desire in me ...and this validation becomes my one motivation ....tbh there's nothing like validation...nothing It's instantly uplifting... I mean to know or feel like people care...to feel worthy ....and to accept the deception in your eyes to feel the warmth of being accepted ....my does validation **** ones soul....
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Feb 21, 2015
Feb 21, 2015 at 5:56 PM UTC
What validation does to ones soul?
When my mom first thought that I was gay, She and my father sat me down at the kitchen table. I was fifteen and thought I was in love, And all they could do was scream at me... ‘You’re a sin; what you feel isn’t natural.’ ‘Where did we go wrong?’ And all I had wanted was to love in peace. But apparently, that was too much to ask from them. So I stifled myself. I cut myself off from her and let us wither Until there was nothing left of us because I wasn't normal And I was fifteen And all I wanted was my mother’s approval And how could I gain that if I wasn’t normal? And then I was sixteen and I thought I was in love again But this time with a seventeen-year-old boy That knew nothing of love And everything of sharp edges and even sharper words But he spoke so pretty to me, And how could I resist? But he hurt me worse than anyone else that I’ve known And he never even cared… And then I was seventeen. I was seventeen and my best friend had this mane Of beautiful hair and I called her lovely and wife And all the other silly little pet names that high school girls do But little did she know that her smile Lit fireworks inside my brain and the swarms of Butterflies that beat in my chest rivalled that of a drum. I thought she was beautiful. I saw the universe in her. But how could I admit that to myself without admitting it to My mother, the one person whose validation I crave like Air and water and life itself? How could I admit to her that I wasn’t Her little girl anymore? That I was a disappointment? And then I was eighteen. I was eighteen and numb and not looking for anything when he found me... I was eighteen and I thought that surely, Surely This was it, this was the feeling that I was waiting for. But it wasn’t and I was eighteen and alone again But this hurt worse than the others and then I was gone after that summer. Now, I’m almost nineteen. I’m almost nineteen and I’ve accepted the fact that I will disappoint my mother; The one whose opinion that I value the most; The one that gave birth to me; The only one that can tear me down until I feel like nothing. But she’s my mother so how could I let her go When she was there for my first word and my first steps And every one of my other firsts. My first date. My first dance. My first breakup. She was there when I left for college, and she’ll be there when (if) I get married. Because regardless of my choices, She loves me, and she always will. And even if I can’t bring my partner home, I will love her all the same. So mom, if you see this, I’m sorry. I’m sorry that I didn’t turn out how you wanted. I’m sorry that I disappointed you. But I’m not sorry for being who I am. I’m not sorry for thinking women are beautiful And men are handsome Because all the world needs is a little bit more love, And who am I to deprive it of that?
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Mar 15, 2022
Mar 15, 2022 at 11:26 PM UTC
An Apology to my Mother
When my mom first thought that I was gay, She and my father sat me down at the kitchen table. I was fifteen and thought I was in love, And all they could do was scream at me... ‘You’re a sin; what you feel isn’t natural.’ ‘Where did we go wrong?’ And all I had wanted was to love in peace. But apparently, that was too much to ask from them. So I stifled myself. I cut myself off from her and let us wither Until there was nothing left of us because I wasn't normal And I was fifteen And all I wanted was my mother’s approval And how could I gain that if I wasn’t normal? And then I was sixteen and I thought I was in love again But this time with a seventeen-year-old boy That knew nothing of love And everything of sharp edges and even sharper words But he spoke so pretty to me, And how could I resist? But he hurt me worse than anyone else that I’ve known And he never even cared… And then I was seventeen. I was seventeen and my best friend had this mane Of beautiful hair and I called her lovely and wife And all the other silly little pet names that high school girls do But little did she know that her smile Lit fireworks inside my brain and the swarms of Butterflies that beat in my chest rivalled that of a drum. I thought she was beautiful. I saw the universe in her. But how could I admit that to myself without admitting it to My mother, the one person whose validation I crave like Air and water and life itself? How could I admit to her that I wasn’t Her little girl anymore? That I was a disappointment? And then I was eighteen. I was eighteen and numb and not looking for anything when he found me... I was eighteen and I thought that surely, Surely This was it, this was the feeling that I was waiting for. But it wasn’t and I was eighteen and alone again But this hurt worse than the others and then I was gone after that summer. Now, I’m almost nineteen. I’m almost nineteen and I’ve accepted the fact that I will disappoint my mother; The one whose opinion that I value the most; The one that gave birth to me; The only one that can tear me down until I feel like nothing. But she’s my mother so how could I let her go When she was there for my first word and my first steps And every one of my other firsts. My first date. My first dance. My first breakup. She was there when I left for college, and she’ll be there when (if) I get married. Because regardless of my choices, She loves me, and she always will. And even if I can’t bring my partner home, I will love her all the same. So mom, if you see this, I’m sorry. I’m sorry that I didn’t turn out how you wanted. I’m sorry that I disappointed you. But I’m not sorry for being who I am. I’m not sorry for thinking women are beautiful And men are handsome Because all the world needs is a little bit more love, And who am I to deprive it of that?
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She's a selfish lover, armed with stunning beauty. She hunts joyfully for an innocent & caring heart, She wants to satisfy her longing spirit. Self validation by conquered hearts. Conquests, like trophies on a night stand. Each victory validated by a wounded spirit. Her potent satisfactions soon dwindles. Repeated victories, must be obtained. Scores of bleeding hearts form rivers of tears. Each conquest screaming from nearby roof tops. Her Reputation becomes known by many. The walking wounded, They protect their dulled spirit With raised eyebrows and gently shaking heads, With muffled voices they warn, she is trouble waiting to happen. I have been bitten by her kind of love. The sting lingers in my heart, The scars noticeable in my spirit & in my eyes. I have her disease now. My heart longs for love. Not for Revenge! But, for recovery and for self validation!
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Jan 1, 2013
Jan 1, 2013 at 5:19 PM UTC
Validation by Heart Break
A child wanders the hall before school starts The emptiness and loneliness are his education New children enter the school As they exit the bus Light shines on the school As it exits the Sun Yet the wandering child's eyes must adjust To colors he's starting to see Colors like jealousy and frustration The wandering child is powerless to the explosive light And searches for ways to extinguish it He finds his solution in the room where we keep our guns The room sits in the dark center of the building Across the hall from where we keep our children Kids have been playing with guns for a while now Everyone my age that I know Imagined shooting up their school These are well adjusted people It's just the times we live in And what it takes to adjust There are some things that will remain true Killing is wrong And murdering a murderer is ****** The executioner hides his face in shame He's ashamed of the enjoyment he feels From the power he holds over other people's lives Unaware the power he holds Is meant to come from love Love that has been buried For the temporary thrill of death It seems like a dark joke Giving a child a gun And then asking them to go through high school Because kids are ******* stupid And some people never grow up And high school never ends The wandering child takes his newly found arsenal To the densely populated cafeteria Only to realize the other children are just as well armed They drown in tension When their actions have megaton weight Before anyone can say anything Everyone starts shooting They grade each other in their minds And their test comes at the end of the barrel They find validation In blood splattered on the wall And bodies that once stood now lying The gunshots deafened the wandering child And the smoke blinded him Reminiscent of the emptiness and loneliness before school started This was his education Today I watched a bunch of ants eating one another Their ant hill collapsed as rain started pouring Yet they continued killing each other as they drowned They all seemed to be the same size But their problems seemed so much bigger So they found comfort in killing one another instead
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Oct 9, 2017
Oct 9, 2017 at 8:30 AM UTC
Wandering Child
A child wanders the hall before school starts The emptiness and loneliness are his education New children enter the school As they exit the bus Light shines on the school As it exits the Sun Yet the wandering child's eyes must adjust To colors he's starting to see Colors like jealousy and frustration The wandering child is powerless to the explosive light And searches for ways to extinguish it He finds his solution in the room where we keep our guns The room sits in the dark center of the building Across the hall from where we keep our children Kids have been playing with guns for a while now Everyone my age that I know Imagined shooting up their school These are well adjusted people It's just the times we live in And what it takes to adjust There are some things that will remain true Killing is wrong And murdering a murderer is ****** The executioner hides his face in shame He's ashamed of the enjoyment he feels From the power he holds over other people's lives Unaware the power he holds Is meant to come from love Love that has been buried For the temporary thrill of death It seems like a dark joke Giving a child a gun And then asking them to go through high school Because kids are ******* stupid And some people never grow up And high school never ends The wandering child takes his newly found arsenal To the densely populated cafeteria Only to realize the other children are just as well armed They drown in tension When their actions have megaton weight Before anyone can say anything Everyone starts shooting They grade each other in their minds And their test comes at the end of the barrel They find validation In blood splattered on the wall And bodies that once stood now lying The gunshots deafened the wandering child And the smoke blinded him Reminiscent of the emptiness and loneliness before school started This was his education Today I watched a bunch of ants eating one another Their ant hill collapsed as rain started pouring Yet they continued killing each other as they drowned They all seemed to be the same size But their problems seemed so much bigger So they found comfort in killing one another instead
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I am worth being valued for existing Not only in the moments That I become relevant, necessary, or useful For lustful, celebratory or inspirational insanity I am not a lollipop or an exotic destination Stop exploring me ************* Because you salivate over this Hispaniola Beautiful island desecrated and decimated How many beautiful spirits will you make savages How many pure rivers will you **** blood on How many conquests will you claim a stake in How much balance will you disturb and subjugate to the trauma of your transitory exploration There's no impunity for conquerors Who taste, plunder, disguise disapproval in their apologies and move on There's no impunity for conquerors Who pick and choose who's worth Of validation, when, & how There's no impunity for conquerors Who play with men and women Hierarchize their prey But fail to acknowledge Their man-child whitewashed Hidden agendas & rigged market values Conquerors haunted by the trauma they've caused Will not be absolved by the revolution Neither will the revolution be the breast That heals conquers who are traumatized By the realization of their own fuckery
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Apr 22, 2015
Apr 22, 2015 at 5:29 AM UTC
Conquerors Shall Not Be Absolved by the Revolution