lately I have come dangerously close to contacting you
so i will write this,
in hopes that you will not read it.
I simply need to write to you,
because i feel as though my heart is imploding on itself.
so first thing is first.
I miss you.
I miss you every day.
At first, I had this feeling of missing a relationship.
I had soft memories of you,
memories of making love with someone that cared
memories of your body next to mine
the memories have become clear and crisp
i no longer miss being in a relationship
I just miss you.
I have put those feelings through a strainer and kept the ones that make the most sense.
so now, i can't stop thinking about you.
everything reminds me of you.
I made asparagus for my parents the other day.
it made me think of you.
I drank some Mike's the other day.
Made me think of you.
I swear that every time I go into the hallway of my building, Chicago is playing on the loudspeakers.
It only reminds me of you.
And then there is everyone I ever cared about from Mankato.
Everyone reminds me of you.
And when I say "reminds", I mean that they all bring back vivid memories of us.
Of times that we were really happy.
And I miss us being happy.
I want to call you.
I want to hear your voice.
I want some sort of reassurance that you are out there.
But I know I can't.
And even if I did,
nothing good would come of it.
I would tell you that I miss you.
I would cry.
I would tell you that I love you.
I would cry harder.
And I would be secretly happy if you said that you were miserable in Texas.
I want you to be miserable without me
because I am miserable here without you.
I have progressed past the point where I normally would rebound
into someone else's arms.
I am strong.
I feel so ******* weak
I've been doing okay.
I've been trying really hard to get out and meet people so I'm not lonely all the time.
I've made some new friends here in the cities.
I wish you could meet them.
I wish I could meet your friends in Texas.
I am turning 21 soon.
Really soon, actually.
Everyone keeps asking me what I want for my birthday.
I don't really know what to tell them
because there's only one thing
but it's the one thing I can't have
just a phone call.
just one call.
just to say "hi"
how are you
how is texas
i miss you
did you read my poem
thank you, yes i had a good birthday.
it would have been better with you here.
i wrote you another song
i got another job
i'm transferring schools
how is your family
how does your brother like college
i miss you
i wish you were here
i love you
talk to you later
I'm sorry for writing all this down.
I think I need some sort of closure that I still am not getting.
I am still holding onto some sort of hope
Hope for what? I'm not quite sure.
Mostly that you still care about me
and that you miss me as much as I miss you
because I've never had to "get over" anyone before
and everyone told me how hard it would be
but I didn't think I would wake up every morning and burst into tears
I didn't think that letting go
would take this long
I am, however, so happy that I am still single
not dating anyone
not interested in anyone.
I wonder if you are too.
and if you are,
if it's because you miss me.
or if you just haven't found anyone that you like yet.
I realized pretty ******* quick
that you set my bar really high.
and it will be really hard for someone to meet all the standards you helped me create for myself.
my family is doing okay.
I got rear-ended a couple of weeks ago.
so we got a new car.
It's a white two-door honda.
i can't believe how sad it makes me,
because it looks so much like your car.
my dad hasn't been doing very well.
sometimes i feel like he doesn't want me around.
i feel like he wants me to just move out and get an apartment,
but i'm not able to right now. not financially.
but i feel a lot of self-shame
because i "moved back home".
my mom has started crocheting.
so she has made like 6 different hats, and a bag for me.
both of my parents have kind of laid off of me, in terms of religion.
They kinda let me do my own thing and have stopped trying to convert me.
Has your situation with your folks gotten any better?
Did you hear about the passing of *** marriage in minnesota?
of course you have.
august 1st was such a day of celebration.
I wish i could have taken you down to the courthouse in the capital to watch all the weddings happen.
it would have been so much fun.
i guess i'll wrap this letter up.
I know it's probably silly to write it because you said you would stop checking this website.
but, if you're anything like me, you check it anyway.
sometimes i un-block you on facebook just to look at your pictures.
you are still just as handsome as ever.
and once a week, at LEAST,
I check your university's website to see if they have a "staff profile" of you up yet.
So far no luck.
In the past two months,
I have let myself make a lot of mistakes.
But on the other hand,
nothing has changed how I feel about you.
I miss you and I care about you.
Don't take this the wrong way
but I love you.
don't call me.
I need to keep on keeping on.
I just needed to get this all off of my chest
i'll be able to fall asleep without keeping myself awake crying.