Hold onto me as tight as you can,
I’m just learning to walk,
And here I stand unsteady, terrified to fall.
As a child I ran, instead of taking baby steps,
Full confidence, and full stride,
Pride was all I ever saw on my mother’s face.
I could get high off of that smile,
So I became an addict, desperate to show my capabilities,
Dying to show my perfect qualities.
My mastery became a constant, an expectation,
And perfection became my whole life,
Even though society screamed it was all a lie.
Never did I feel worthy,
“Good enough”
Was a phrase I was foreign to.
So I sought out my worth,
And ended up finding my substance in substances,
I stole drinks in the moments I was alone.
A dangerous game, with rewards reaped in the dark
One sip, two sips, and a million more —
I spent the nights drunk on gasoline.
Flames ran through my veins, torching my soul,
A silent torture devouring my brain,
Appeasing the demons within.
They told me I was ageless, and I fell for it,
Is that what it is? Not liquor, but maturity,
Is maturity my worth?
If the burning made me feel older,
Would the blood and bone feel the same way?
So, I scarred my own skin to test my theory.
It never brought the maturity,
The feeling I knew would make everyone proud,
But instead it reminded me I was alive.
I was ripped from my own apathy,
And instead of the numbness,
I felt every emotion I worked so hard to push down.
I tried to fight it all off, but I couldn’t any longer,
The weight of the feelings I forgot I had,
Made me buckle at the knees and crumple to the ground.
For the first time in my life I had stopped running.
And as the paralysis left me,
And all the emotions flooded to my mind,
I saw clearly.
No longer was I blinded by the expectations forced upon me.
Slowly I will heal, and I plan to walk,
So please, hold onto me, and never me let go.
- C.c
This has been a draft of mine for almost as long as I've been writing poetry. I've been working on it for so long, but this poem has never felt "right". I still have the original version and screams of my old style. I let it be for a couple years and I've recently been workshopping it again. I like this version and I feel ready to share, however it still doesn't feel right and I'll probably change it once again. Something tells me this poem will never feel right, I'm too close to it and imperfection is the condition of its nature. I think that in itself is more poetic than any word in these lines. I do hope you enjoy it.