I
THE REMARK
She scornfully remarked,
"Ha, Ha, men?.....
They are dogs,
all of them"
and then went on
and said,
"Most of my friends are men"
II
THE QUESTIONS
It was a casual conversation
but left behind nagging questions:
One:
Is woman really liberated?
For if that were so,
she would be free to sow
the seeds for a malice-free life:
A life that is
marked by sobriety
and unshakable fraternity –
A distinguished burden which principally she
can carry gracefully
till we all reach Goshen.
Two:
Has man been always liberated?
You may or may not agree,
I just say what I see.
III
THE VICTIM
Among the countless atrocities
on the vast womankind,
a hoarse, feeble voice thus pines:
Look at him;
He has been trained to ****
and be unflinchingly killed.....
He is:
an oblivious slave to his condition,
.....a victim of unmindful persuasions
by apathetic social conventions....
crippled....plagued...
by inherited apparitions
of our grand forefathers.
He has been brutalized too
on his way from a wobbly boyhood
to a hard-bitten manhood.
IV
SYSTEMIC SCARS
One could write a manuscript.
Instead I cite a sparse list
about how
he has been systematically marred
by the oppressive
socio-economic-political farce:
......of the defense ministry,
or salvation through insurgency...
......of the drug cartel,
or the liquor-tobacco lobby...
......of the boss's fancy,
......of female friendly courts,
...even sports!!!
......of the spousal gripe.....
and most of all...
....through the stereotype hype.
V
DIS-EMPOWERMENT OF MAN
Is man really enfranchised?
I am a man and I vouch otherwise.
........
Bully the other boy
else...
just play with a toy
solitary.....a *****.
You are born with a member,
Now, my goodness,
prove to be better
than your female opposite number;
An impossible task,
for no gender
is exclusively first-class.
Prove your chivalry;
find a nice young lady
or carry some forbidden
infamous label.
Hide your malaise,
pretend to be at ease,
do not brood,
or be doomed
as a sentimental fool.
Always be okay alone
wherever you are
whatever you are...
sickly or strong.
Feel guilty.
After all, all social malady
is solely your responsibility.
You are just the "unfair ***"
...an ugly accumulation
of grossly vile testosterone,
no match for the noble progesterone.
My unfortunate friend, do you see…
That radical crowd....so elite?
That is the "fair-***",
not ye.....not ye.
Apart from a backbreaking childbirth,
most other dangerous or physically stressful work
is a man's traditional berth.
Even the macrocosm
has been a scrooge,
depriving him
from the possibility of motherhood;
...the sensational miracle of natural creation.
Is man really free...?
VI
THE SLOG DOG
But yes,
as my good friend said,
there still remains
a thin little thread
of fragmentary credence,
hanging like a dire dog-collar.
It says:
Man is a two-timing slog-dog;
unfaithful to many
but loyal to love,
wagging the tail
for his lovely suffragette dove.
She can heap
his eating bowl
with puppy-love chow
and he will be forever hers.
Inspired by the fault in popular notion that only a woman is disempowered in our social setup. The truth is that both genders suffer though the reasons may be different.
I am just making an attempt to write from a man's perspective, which is often ignored or understood only in a singular way - that all men are by default oppressors of women.
It is not my intention to hurt anyone. Any offence caused is purely unintentional.
