I feel like:
I'm yelling
at a brick wall
with my hand
over my mouth
As if I were
to remove my hand
that it would make a
difference
but it wouldn't
You still wouldn't hear.
You would continue to
talk AT me in that
condescending tone
arguing with you
is superfluous
you just think you're right
arguing logically
with an illogical person
is illogical
and when you are
backed into a corner
you yell
and then claim
to be hurt
in an effort to gain
an apology
UNWARANTED
You stomp your feet
and slam things down
on the counter
like a five year old child
and expect me
to take you seriously
And when you walk
into that door
and accuse me of
the stupidest things
then expect me not to
"get an attitude"
it ****** me off to no end
That's why I shut off,
Mother.
That's why I don't talk to you.
When I tell you to leave me alone
because
I DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT
it means that I don't want to hurt you
by saying these things
and that I love you,
but I hate dealing with the way
you handle situations that you don't like.
It's not fair to the other person
because you
Barrel through their retaliations
with senseless *******
that only makes sense to you
and if no apology comes,
you obsess until you come up
with this ******* conclusion
that is over-thought
and entirely untrue
I'm not pregnant, you idiot.
And just because I don't want to talk to you
doesn't make whatever is wrong ABOUT you
and don't make it about you.
because you do. all the ******* time.
You still treat me like I'm ten years old
and you have this assured power over me
you want to take back the presents you bought me?
fine. do it. I'm not materialistic, so all it proves is your
pettiness.
I wish you could hear the malice dripping in your tone
aimed specifically just to hurt me
thanks, Mom.
I appreciate it on my BREAK.
But it's not a break with you
******* at me 24/7.
I can't wait to go back to school and
be stressed out there instead.
At least I don't have to worry about
hostility when I'm in my own room.
And by the way, learn how to knock.
written: December 30, 2009
Author's Note: I love my mother very much. This particular poem was when we were both having a difficult time adjusting to me being in college. It was a hard transition because she was a single mom and raised me essentially by herself, and the way I was changing scared her. She didn't recognize me as the same person as I was when I had graduated high school.