Dear Body,
I am sorry
for the pain
I've put you through.
The problem never really was you.
The problem was my goal for perfection.
Be perfect or be nothing.
Doesn't make much sense.
Yet this thought made my life very intense.
I hated you deeply all of grade twelve
In dieting and restricting I began to delve
Desperately trying to diminish you.
Sadly it worked, and you became hurt.
Yet even when I was scarily thin
I never loved the skin I was in
Recovery was hard, but I did gain weight.
But relapse was my impending fate.
I loved feeling accomplished watching the number go down
But my mood and personality fatally drowned.
Who did I become?
My low mood drove me to change my ways
To try to brighten all the darker days
I regained weight.
Eating disorders are not all about weight
Or body image.
They're about repairing your relationship with yourself.
I tortured my body to achieve a goal
Hoping it would make me feel more whole.
And now here I am.
Still fighting.
Fighting to ignore the thoughts in my head
That tell me to hurt you again.
But you don't deserve that
You're worth so much more
Being perfect isn't what you were given to me for.
I am worth so much more than a number on a scale.
I must ignore the thoughts in my head
And treat my body with some respect.
Nourish and care for it, it's the only one I've got
Let media and culture's images brutally rot.
Have my drive for perfection no longer be a thought.
Accept myself and explore a lot.