I’ve never had a simple answer
to who I am.
My head and soul—
they never matched
what the world expected.
Not my body—
that was never the issue.
But inside me—
there she was.
A whisper in the dark,
a smile behind my eyes.
Bertine.
She laughed when I said,
“You’re a boy, look down.”
She just smiled—
that quiet girl
who never gave up.
I was eight,
holding a gift in my hand,
heart pounding.
A blue plastic car—
my favorite.
She opened it,
looked surprised—
but she knew what it meant.
Good enough.
I was the only boy
at the birthday.
But inside,
I was more than that.
In love, wild, confused—
and full of fire.
The teenage years came.
I tried it all,
loved both,
knew little—
but felt everything.
Makeup, rings, Prince blasting loud.
Feminine and masculine
at once.
Borderless.
Today I say bisexual,
but that’s just a word.
I’m more than a label.
I’m me.
With Bertine in the bracelets,
the rings,
and Odin hanging from my neck.
I write this
for anyone who feels the same.
For that kid who says:
“I feel a little different.”
Tell them:
“You’re good enough just as you are.”
Because that’s what it’s about.
Standing strong
in your own truth.
Even when it doesn’t fit
in someone else’s **** box.