People who want to love, have to suffer in the hands of their lover.
The selection process is so tedious, full of pain but sweet pain.
You have a lot of information about love in the world, but to know the truth of pain behind love, let us discuss...

Something strange happens before you speak to your lover in love.
Assume you're in love with one of your colleagues, what happens in general, you create a virtual world of your office in your mind and the entire structure of the office is recorded, where your crush is sitting in and from where you watch her...
If she is not looking at you, you do all kinds of drama to attract her.

You find a  Common behaviour.
Scene 1 : John was attracted to his colleague Daisy, What John will do is wear a perfect fitting dress and to show her he is fit, lower his voice and use a different tone to attract her. Always exhibits Alpha male behaviour to display his leadership on every assignment.

If you still fail to attract her then what happens is..
You decide to create jealousy, hence she may get attracted to you.

Scene 2 : Meanwhile, John would have created a virtual world of the office, he is constantly watching her in his virtual world and doing a lot of interaction with her in the virtual world, he will go on attempting to attract her in the virtual world though nothing happens in the outer world. Why this happening is, John first has to attract her in his virtual world in order to attract her in the outer world. This is a sweet pain.
The awesome moment is that his mood changes outer, depending on her behaviour in his virtual world. You would have seen the guys in love sometimes happy and vice versa. was all because of the virtual world scenario.
Suppose, If John was not able to attract Daisy means he will imagine bringing a beautiful girl into his virtual office in order to create jealousy but this actually happens in his virtual world but the truth is there is no way, he is bringing a girl to his real office to offend her. This whole scenario was because he wanted it to happen in the virtual world first, If he attracts her in his virtual world, then he can do the same in the outer world.


Next, You imagine that you want to enter the office without looking at her, and want to avoid her throughout the day, but in reality that is not possible. Even this thought and action was continually practiced inside your virtual world. when you're alone.

Scene 3
John will keep on thinking not to see her and wants to avoid her. He never knows avoiding her is more of a kind of behaviour of attracting her. He enters his office without watching her and prevents seeing her side but his entire body language will be attracting and she knows he is trying to avoid her. She will read his behaviour that only his eyes are avoiding, not his body. Again he fails.


You have more thoughts like teasing her as if she is nothing to you, sometimes you imagine you're shouting at her in the office or public places. But all these activities you want to do only in your thoughts i.e. virtual world.
Why?
Because you cannot hate her and you want to create a situation and lead that situation to hate. You have to ignore/hate her in your virtual world, then only you can ignore her in the outer world.
Suppose, if you are successful then she even disappears from the inner and outer world.
But that was not possible in love.

In simple terms,
Initially, love always happens in your virtual world and not outside.
The entire interaction of what is happening outside is actually happening inside of your virtual world.  That's why we all feel when they avoid us we carry it to our home because the virtual world goes on exhibiting the scenario and gives ideas to take revenge on her in your virtual world.
But once you see her in the office the next day, you're so normal as if nothing happened..
We punish/revenge our girlfriend only in the virtual world till our love becomes successful.

I will give you a virtual kiss
Virtual kiss
And a virtual hug
virtual hug
I just can't give you
A virtual me

Some say
we live
in a
virtual world.
A matrix.
Our
existence,
digital.
What does
that mean?
We’re not
real?
We’re
not
alive?
I think
therefore
I’m not?
How real
is real?
If virtual
here,
potentially
virtual
anywhere?
If virtual,
virtual
forever?
Life
after death?
Digital rebirth
elsewhere?
Free will
a digital
trick,
a mirage.
Programed?
It’s all
programed?
Everything is
fixed.
Searching,
searching for
the meaning of
existence.
Possibly
no meaning
at all!

I’m here!
I see me.
I hear me.
I’m here.
What’s here?
Where’s here?
Am I real?
What’s real?
Virtual universe.
Possible!
Quantum computer
generated?
Possible!
We don’t know
all that’s
possible
so anything
is possible.
Would it matter?
“I think
therefore
I am.”
Would it
matter how
I came to be?
Virtual world,
virtual rules.
If virtual, will
I die?
Cease to exist.
If virtual here,
virtual
anywhere?
Will I simply
derez, or
pop up
elsewhere?
Possible.
Virtual immortality?
Possible!
Virtual
life after
death?
“I think
therefore
I am.”
Possible.

Modern generation,
Creation of virtual reality,
But to me it seems like a fatality,
To human,
Why do we need this virtual world,
To make fairy worlds look real,
To experience something,
That can never be real?,
When i was a child,
Even i saw a world,
That could never be mine,
Even i could see clouds swirl and curl,
But i never used virtual reality,
I used my imagination,
The key for creation,
Why do we need fake stimulated worlds,
When u can create one in your head,
And travel it,
Expand it,
U can do whatever you want,
They may turn into dreams,
In your mind,
Any image you can beam,
Human imagination,
Is stronger than any creation,
Then why do we succumb,
To virtual reality,
Or is it humans have lost their imagination ,
And is heading for fatality

What do you know of war?  
First person shooter
Simulated gun fire
computerized blood splatter

What do you know of war?
Tag team alliance
Kids slaying kids
for virtual dollars

What do i know of war?
I saw the carnage
Devastation, the horrors
The smell of death

What do i know of war?
The pain haunts me
every day
every hour
It NEVER goes away!

War ain't no game, bro!

I live in a virtual hell
Because I like it
I love my slavery
A virtual hell
I am no longer a human
Rather a  robot or an android  
I have a great need of finger clicks
The finger clicks brings serotonin  
Which stimulates my brain program
When you click a finger like
On my facehell publication
I feel better i fell good
otherwise i will be depressed
I am already lost In this
Infernal virtual slavery
Do androids dream of freedom?
This union made of machine and animal
Works with virtual clicks likes
A click serotonin stimulating finger
When will androids dream
Of a real virtual revolution
Or they never do cause
Machines never dream
Humanity  hope this dream get true
For a better life but it's just a wish
The real future life will be
A world of the Green Sun!

People come
People go
We get so close to people
we don't ever really know

We're all avatars
in this
the real world

Private self
Public self
Virtual self

We're all avatars
in this world

As real as the real world
As if it didn't have a delete
re-set re-post twelve more lives
power-off button

Real worlds converge

Real hurts
Real drama
Unfriend   Block

When the virtual world
replaces the real world
which is the "real" world?
Real money for virtual tools
People fall in real love with people
they don't even know
People come and go

The real world
The world that really matters
The real world is real to me.

Take your pick in the real world,
which is really real

Private self
Dream self
Public self
Virtual self

Real pain in the real world

Are we all really avatars
in the real world?

One day the AI robots
are coming with skin
3d printed
speaking your language,
real relationships
going the way of cigarettes
outside
better done in the garden.

The  AI's will be singing every night
"Happy trails to you "
When they know they are the
new real.

A virtual
real relationship
in the real world

Imagine that

Are we all avatars
in this world,
the real
real
world?

And which is that?

One day when we have dream machines,
is anyone gonna want to wake up?

We're all avatars in this world
the real world.

We met by chance.
We chatted.
We became virtual friends.
We become good virtual friends.
We remembered each other likes.
We learnt from each other.
We inspired each other.
We read each other's thoughts being anon.
We spoke a little in person and much online.
We feared of eye contact in public.
We thought 10 times to make a phone call.
We argued sometimes.

We chose a different path.
We chatted once in a blue moon.
We wrote mail, 2 times a year, on each other's birthday.

We lost contacts.
We are strangers now.

We still hope and want the other shall be doing great and being happy.

Friendship,  virtual friendship.

One gloomy day is all that took to find you
Sharing our stories and bonding with the progression of time
Our moral connection strengthening and there is nothing that we together can't go through
So interdependent in each other to find that mutual bliss

I knew everything about you and you about me
But we were just confined to the virtual world
Experiencing each others presence in the mortal realm was our everyday chatter
We finally found time to make that dream a possibility and struck with excitement, we rested

The next morning I woke up, so merry to finally meet you
To my greatest fear you seem no where to be found
Your identity is non-existent, you disappeared from the face of all social matrix and your so called friends seemed something out of a fairy tale
Heartbroken and left alone, going through an alienated feeling which is severely hard to express

I thought and thought about our memories, an odd yet controversial thought
How can a mortal just fade away from your life in an instance?
Is it cause you're carried away by the hardships faced by a teen or am I one among the party of virtual friends who are bewildered by your disappearance
Made me question my virtual bonds and the many virtual beings that shaped my life