My dearest Little Brother, if there were only words to describe how I feel,
I would tell you that you are amazing, you're truthful, and your real. 
You've come from depths and the darkest of despairs, you've lived through things that people only conquer with prayers. 
Yeah, we get it, you weren't dealt the best hand of them all.
But look at you now Will, still standing there tall. 
You've made it this far, yeah with a lot of love, but what is family for if it isn't to give you a shove.
With your head held high and optimism in your heart
You've realized that everyday is a new beginning, a fresh start. 
Yesterday is gone and the past; it doesn't matter.
"I knew who I was this morning but I've changed a few times since then."
Once said the Mad Hatter. 
Forever changing, we all aways are.  Like Alice in Wonderland, trying to get home from afar.  There are so many obstacles blocking the path to our destiny,
but in the end we find out it was all for necessity.
Hardship and obstruction are the root of all things great. 
You have to overcome them to set yourself straight.
You have to trudge through the agonizing and the bad
So when you wake up you realize that there is no reason to be sad
Your blessed in more ways than one can fathom
A family that loves you and believes in you, you have them.
We set our standards on what we think people want from us,
But not you, no sir you don't understand the fuss. 
You march to your own drum, make friends wherever you go
I've seen you go through a lot and I just want you to know
You've come out on top but there's still room to climb
So don't give up hope and don't say your fine.
Talk to me when you need an ear
Know I love you and I'll always be here.

I Love my little sister-

Thirty years have almost come and gone, and now it's time to reflect.
Knowing the path my little sister chose, for her I have so much respect.

I chose a different path for my life, and for this I don't complain, I've seen many things and enjoyed many experiences and for this I'm not ashamed.

It seems though I've missed a lot throughout her years, the hugs the kisses, the crying, the tears.

Although we've had our separate lives we share a common theme. Sisters are aware of each others hopes, they cherish one another's dreams.

As I get older in my life, time flies by so fast. I find myself looking at your pictures to remind me of the past.

I realize that through the years of many friends I've left behind, that you Madelyn, you are my best friend and you've been there through the grind.

Let's take this time together, these years that are yet to come. Fill them with giggles and smiles and inside jokes that are dumb.

For we'll always be close as sisters whether we're near or far apart
Because a sister is forever and your always in my heart.

In my perfect world
In my perfect world there would be no tears
Only hopes and dreams, no darkness or fears.
The man you love would love you back
he wouldn't leave and I wouldn't of cracked
He would never leave me and just not return
Leaving me alone with a heart left to burn.

In a perfect world you wouldn't haunt my dreams.
I could sleep in peace understanding nothing is as it seems.
You said this is love and I was the one, now your gone and I can't find you and this isn't fun.
I toss and I turn and a sweat in my sleep wishing I could really hold you and you were mine to keep.

Then in the morning, I awake, and your gone all again.  The memory of you fades and now were not even friends.

In a perfect world you'd call to say hi, and ask how my day was and sometimes stop by.  We would't necessarily be lovers per-say but you would be in my life, somehow, someway.

In a perfect world you never would have left you would have taken me, but instead what you did was a theft.  You stole my heart and you never returned, guess this world isn't so perfect, thats what I've come to learn.

To my Mom on Christmas-

This Christmas I sat alone at my house
I did a lot of crying, sulking, thinking things like, “Why don’t I have a spouse?”
I see old friends from high school getting married and starting families,
I’m over here medicated trying to hold on to my sanity.  
Right now times are hard but I’m determined to thrive
If it were not for you mom I probably wouldn’t be alive.  
I’m almost thirty and as single as can be
It’s hard not to feel like it’s not worth it to love me.
You however have stuck by my side.  
You’ve always listened on nights that I’ve cried.  
How come I can’t have healthy relationships?
Why does my dad shun me and not take me on trips?
How come my sister never answers my calls?
And how come when I’m around I drive my brother up the walls?  
Twenty-seven years old and still depending on you a dad.
I am very aware it makes you extremely mad.
I know you work so hard day in and day out.
You set a great example for me as to what life is about.
You keep your head down and get paid less than you should
You don’t complain often although you could.  
With me always needing money I know it’s impossible to save
For your retirement that I know you crave.  
Sometimes it may feel like this cycle will never end
But I promise you this Christmas will be the last one I spend
Without sending gifts to those I care for most
I promise to become someone about whom you can boast.  
I will be the woman you have always hoped I’d become
One who loves herself and does volunteer work and doesn’t feel numb.
I know you have dreams of traveling and finding love
But you’re too busy helping me and I know you’re tired of
Always being the one who catches me as I’m falling
I apologize for waiting all these years to grow up and stalling.
I know one day I can give you all you desire
Peace of mind knowing we made it through the fire.  
I know we will come out on top of this mess fine
Because fortunately for me my mom is the best kind
She’s the kind that will always listen to me cry
And explains to me there isn’t always a why.  
Things happen for reasons we cannot explain
Life is messy things change and they will never be the same.  
Things may not go back to how they used to be
All the kids are grown up now and I finally see
That if I want a Merry Christmas I have to find it in my heart
I need to let my resentments go and that’d be a good place to start.
Eventually mom the tables will turn, and I’ll be working hard and have money to burn.  Then I can take care of you because you’re my mother.  
You can live in my guesthouse and watch my little girl and her brother.
With Mike out of the picture, another two years wasted
It might be a minute but I want it so bad I can taste it.  
I want the family, big house, some kids, a dog and a yard.
But I know to achieve any of this like you I will have to work hard.
You’ve shown me that nothing in life comes free
But there are people out there far worse off than me.  
Because at the end of the day I have the greatest thing of all
I have you as a mother and you always answer my call.  
Thank you for always listening, always giving me advice
You tell me to value my self and not settle for someone who does not treat me nice.
You’ve listened to me ***** and moan about how Mike makes me sad.  
Time and again asking me why am I with someone who treats me bad?
Bad character you said is something you can’t change
The heart wants what it wants though and I know that it’s strange
That I’d want to be with someone who makes me feel so alone
Someone who won’t even accept my calls when I call on the phone.  
But you mother dear, you’re not the same
You’re naturally a caretaker and never make me ashamed
You’ve always accepted me and understood my disease
You’ve taught me that I should be the one I’m trying to please.
I’ve put you through so much all of these years
I’ve struggled but you’ve always been there to wipe away my tears
You hold me when I’m upset and tell me it’s going to be all right
To be thankful for what I have when I lay my head down at night
Because thanks to you and dad I have a place to call home
Even though there were no presents and I was alone
I still appreciate all that you have always done for me
When I was in jail you were the reason I was freed
After all the pain I’ve caused myself and put you through you’re still there
And I know for a fact your not going anywhere.
At times I feel lost, lose faith, and lose my way
But your still here to talk to me everyday
You tell me to let it go, that it’s ok to cry

That dad is who he is and we’ll probably never know why.
But who needs a dad when I have you as my mother
I think I’m the luckiest girl in the world that I didn’t end up with another.  
Through all the chaos and pain I have put you through
You still remind me I’m your baby and you’ll always be true.  
You have said to me, “There’s not a thing in this world I could do that would change your love for me.”
That kind of unconditional love it doesn’t grow on trees.  
I’m more than fortunate, what I am there’s not a word for
That would encompass all love you’ve given me at times when you should have shown me the door.
This Christmas may not have been the best; it definitely has not been like the rest.  
We used to at least come together and exchange cards.  
This year all were absent and it was super hard.  
But like always talking to you made be feel better
so I wanted to sit down and write you this letter.  
Do you remember when I was just a little girl
We’d lay down in bed in and your arms I would curl
You’d read me this book, you read it a bunch
It was called Love you Forever and it was by Robert Munsch.
It was about how much a mother loved her new baby
Even though at times he would make her feel crazy
At night time when he was fast asleep
On her hands and knees into his room she would creep
And if in fact he was in a deep slumber
She would rock him back and fourth and sing him this number
“I’ll love you forever, I’ll like you for always, as long as you living my baby you’ll be.”
I remember when you read this part you looked right at me.  
The little boy grew, nine, twelve, thirty-five,
and as the story goes, his older mother eventually died.
Well that little boy grew up to become a father
and at night he’d rock and sing to his daughter.  
He’d sing the same song his mother had sang
Because we learn how to parent from where we came.  
So this is how I know I’m going to be okay.  
Because I’ve had the greatest role model cheering me on everyday.
A woman at times who was both mom and dad.  
Who compensated for the lack of love that he had.
I thank you for being the best mom to me
And know that I need like $40 this poem wasn’t free.


Just kidding.  I Love you.  Merry Christmas.

I'm not going to sit here and let my eyes water
Thinking about the reasons you can't give out child a father
The only way for me to stay sane is to think of all the ways
All the ways I love you more and more throughout the days
I loved that you could fix things be a sink, a car, or my heart
I loved that you were always there till the very end right from the very start
I loved that when they told you that the cancer was spreading
you came home with me one last time and i love we laid in our bedding
I love that we had one ore night to share before you were gone
I know one day I'll see you again but a lifetime is to long
I love that our little girl will remember her dad loved her most
and I especially love the way every breakfast you burnt the toast.
But most of all I love you because your strength and heart
and I know no matter where you go will never be apart.