I will never understand artists.
They move, beholden to the dictates of an unseen master, in ways that I can't fathom.
They produce works which I could not create, do so for a cost that I wouldn't pay, and roll with highs that I can't imagine.
All in all, I know they are different. That's easy to say now, but much harder to say when you are with an artist.
Artists are attractive. Free, confident, focused, and talented: what's not to love? If an artist takes you as their muse, you become part of the process, which at first seems amazing.
You get to be part of the creation of something bigger than yourself! Then, you realize that you are the emotional equivalent of a paintbrush for the artist; a disposable tool. That makes the whole thing seem less amazing.
Artists are devoted to their art, that's what makes them special. It's also what makes you less than special to them. You can be around when it helps the process, but make no mistake, when it doesn't help the process, you are out.
Commitment to an artist is nothing in comparison to craft. They have to produce; it's their life. So, really, I can't blame them (ok, I really mean that I can't blame her) for not behaving normally.
They never said they were normal. Why did I expect otherwise?
