having the audacity to accept the duality of man, of time, of life rather a causality in itself of things, of people, of emotions you can finally let go the loss of innocence before you even know not hopelessly muddled anymore like the grey colour in the middle of black and white no more under the pressure now off to where the air is fresher.
Accepting the duality is accepting yourself - as you are. Just like we live in the grey between the black and white of HP.