How does one go upon forgiving something they never faced? Avoidance is a forbidden fruit that yields only bitter aftertaste. Do we mislead to be okay, just to elude the debates? Do we ignore the pain, just to keep up the harmonious masquerades? And these contradictions we face: Of loving someone so much we disregard our own aches, even when they are those causal to this fate. This is a forgiveness we do not create, this is remembering what we cannot erase.