Sometimes I had had to ignore her, For I had to focus on my life, So that I could make it shine, And then on in future make her mine, Unopposed from the society on the whole, That included both our families & friends, But she couldn't just wait for a little time.
The concepts of attention & neglect are relative. These can't always be meant as such. Sometimes to give proper attention to our love later on in life, we must ignore it and give preference to life and success.