if I am to have, a son, or daughter, who comes out to me as gay, and sit there crying trying to explain, what else could I say, then, "stop crying", "you said you where happy", because acceptance is what people want, in love, in life, and as a parent its your job, to give it to them.
gay or strait our hearts are what makes us a person, and everyday that fact won't change. read past and future on the bible pages or on there life, there more then the part your mind can't stop fixating on as wrong.