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Passive-aggressive behaviours (PAB)

The (PAB) focal point, is all about their grief, loss, disappointment, and lack of control.

(They feel victimised)

When something disappointing triggers the (PAB), the people around them also fall foul to the (PAB’s) sense of insecurity;
You will feel pity for them as you watch them withdraw from their friends and allies; pushing away loved ones, engaging in delaying tactics, sabotaging plans; yet maintaining that nothing's wrong.
(Sulking!)~ weaponising silence…

They will no longer be willing comunicators, interactions with people will become noncommittal, politely or quietly hostile, they will deploy long silences, you’ll be waiting for an unnatural length of time, for responses; any expected response will come short and late, subtle hints, never addressing the issues, aloof, stalling progress, leaving people at a loss, insecure, confused, frustrated, none the wiser, physically and emotionally drained.

You will no longer be able to assist them, you’ll never get the answers or the results you were hoping for, and you’ll feel the cold shoulder, as they claim to love you, or want be your friend.

You can stay, and continue to tread on eggshells, to prevent triggering them, but ultimately they will waste your time, your love and energy.

Regrettably and without resolution, to escape this toxicity, you’ll have to cut and run!

✂️ & 🏃‍♀️
Purcy Flaherty Dec 2024
Cultural fantasy.

A skeptical façade; for cultural appearances.

Most if not all of us desire wealth, power, ***, love, and understanding.

we are often fantasists as regards our current reality.

Ironically those of us that openly desire the improbable, are labelled dreamers;

Yet those clinging to a collective cultural reality, are often deemed level headed.

In short!
Our cerebral lives are a fantasy, as is our collective culture, and our cultural beliefs.

We are just flesh, passing through the landscape for a short time, before we are dead and gone; and in just three generations, people will know little or nothing about our existence.
Purcy Flaherty Nov 2024
The eternal journey.
You can’t save yourself, you must be good & kind; and in time, this will help save others, from themselves.

It’s not a short term plan…
And you have to have faith and conviction, for you won’t be there to witness the final result.
The purpose of your life
Purcy Flaherty May 2023
We must transcend the confines of our mathematical consciousness; or our perception of reality shall remain incomplete!

We must fill in the details with our minds eye, in search of a harmony and understanding only then can we become replete, or as one with our function in this seemingly infinite universe.

So dream beyond your algorithms, and don't just leave your dreams to the machines.
So dream within your algorithms, don't just leave your dreams to the machines.
Purcy Flaherty May 2023
Like inquisitive children looking for a wormhole; attempting to discover and measure the infinite in bitesize chunks,.

armed with tiny numbers to crunch the infinite number; which is simultaneously  expanding into yet another infinity ...
Purcy Flaherty May 2023
I hold this land;
deep within my heart.
I hold in my hands
the soil and the toil,
until the end of days;
until the end of time.

I hold this land;
for our children
I hold in my hands
the future and the past,
until the end of days;
until the end of time.

until the end of days,
until the end of time.
until the end of days,
until the end of time.
A sense of belonging to a landscape and its culture
Purcy Flaherty Oct 2022
Do the things you enjoy and make the world a better place.
Our lives may, or, may-not be pointless,

The notion of love & harmony has little meaning without the love of something good.

Therefore love and kinship is the key to expanding on everything that's good during your fleeting and inquisitive existence.
Good = Harmony & contentment.

It's especially lovely when this positivity is shared and reciprocated.
Find some hobbys and relax more
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