Passive-aggressive behaviours (PAB)
The (PAB) focal point, is all about their grief, loss, disappointment, and lack of control.
(They feel victimised)
When something disappointing triggers the (PAB), the people around them also fall foul to the (PAB’s) sense of insecurity;
You will feel pity for them as you watch them withdraw from their friends and allies; pushing away loved ones, engaging in delaying tactics, sabotaging plans; yet maintaining that nothing's wrong.
(Sulking!)~ weaponising silence…
They will no longer be willing comunicators, interactions with people will become noncommittal, politely or quietly hostile, they will deploy long silences, you’ll be waiting for an unnatural length of time, for responses; any expected response will come short and late, subtle hints, never addressing the issues, aloof, stalling progress, leaving people at a loss, insecure, confused, frustrated, none the wiser, physically and emotionally drained.
You will no longer be able to assist them, you’ll never get the answers or the results you were hoping for, and you’ll feel the cold shoulder, as they claim to love you, or want be your friend.
You can stay, and continue to tread on eggshells, to prevent triggering them, but ultimately they will waste your time, your love and energy.
Regrettably and without resolution, to escape this toxicity, you’ll have to cut and run!

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