Nobody tells you, “don’t fall in love with just anyone yet” because if you fall out of love once, you’ll fall out once again, a couple times more, and perhaps keep falling in and out over and over,
they advice you to not dive in too deep, because it hurts to get out once you’re in, but they don't say don’t dive in just because you can, that you shouldn’t just give your lover tests to prove their love for you, but that you must test your own love, see if you can prove your love to yourself, after all how can you be sure of loving someone when you can’t love the person your heart beats within?