Here’s a little story About a daughter And her family
See the daughter has depression and anxiety But the mother is oblivious The mother is unaware of the depression She genuinely believes that cutting and the fact that her daughter goes to therapy are linked to anxiety
And yet Even though the mother seems to think that it’s only anxiety Meaning that the anxiety is that extreme She still wakes the daughter up By screaming She still questions the daughter In front of a crowd She still yells at the daughter, overwhelms her And sends her into a panic attack
And yet all the people on the outside see is a mother worried about her daughter And trying to help her By taking her to therapy But they don’t see the locked doors They don’t see the screaming The name calling The belittling They don’t see That the mother Is the reason that the daughter Has to fight So **** hard To want to live
They don’t see that the daughter is only happy with her friends They don’t see the scars on her arms, legs, and hips They don’t see that the daughters only escape is when she’s not at home They don’t see that the very therapist the mother takes her to Is proud of the daughter For staying alive In such Rough Circumstances Blood doesn’t mean family
But enough about the mother lets move on to the father. The father that refused to pay child support for the first 3 years after the divorce The father that had a second child, the daughter’s half brother, with another woman The father that is engaged to a different woman now The father that, when evacuated from his city due to a fire, took his fiancé to Jamaica instead of seeing his kids The father that forgot his daughters birthday The father that is “old school” Which just means Sexist And homophobic Blood doesn’t mean family
Next is the sister The sister that supports me The sister that laughs with me The sister that understands how I feel The sister that helps me when I need it The sister that believes in me That loves me The sister creates fun and amazing stories and experiences with me Just because she’s in the mood to have fun The sister that raised me to be a good person That taught me And teaches me How to get through life Blood doesn’t mean family
Finally The friends The friend that gave me a reason to live The friend that gave me a reason to laugh The friend that showed me that it can get better and that they love and care for me and they don’t just “hope I get through this” but that they are going to be there and make sure that I get through this The friend that marched with me with a rainbow The friend that treated my relationships the same as straight ones The friend that told me she’s open to the experience if I want to kiss her The friends that I can flirt with and we laugh about it The friends that I can flirt with and it becomes a little more than just friends The friends who maybe I’m not as close with but who still show interest in my life and what I’m interested in and let me talk about activism because it makes me happy to empower people The friend that made me believe in beautiful The friend that stayed up with me when I had a nightmare about my molesting and help my hand until I fell back asleep The friend that stated up all night on FaceTime singing songs together from our favourite band The friend that boosts my ego when we go to the gym The friend that cried when she found out I self harmed The friends that worry about me and want me to get better The friends that live far away The friends that live close by The friends that have shown me more love and happiness in the past year than I’ve known my whole life The friend that was there even when I felt numb to the world and they just let me be but they made sure I know they’re here The friends that ask questions when they don’t understand The friends that are interested in what I do The friends that offer me a place to stay should I need it The friends who make sure I eat The friends who worry when I don’t eat The friends who sit at the back of the bus The friends who get drunk The friends who throw skittles at people The friends who are in my class The friends who are older than me The friends who are younger than me The friends who help me with homework The friends who show me there are good people in the world The friends Who stick by me And show me That Blood doesn’t mean family
We don’t choose the situation we are born into But we do get to choose Who our family is So thank you To my real family For not only keeping me alive But making me happy to be.
The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb