I'm less & less shocked now-a-days when I found out people's secret ways each time just sounding more & more like things I've heard before If people would pay attention just a little bit they'd notice quite a lot more **** people have more in common that they realize but instead people just assume & spread lies as rumors rapidly spread each time getting more twisted as it is repeated & said even the truth eventually becomes inaccurate & deflated that's when trust begins to get disintegrated causing drama along the way the reason a good relationship begins to decay it all just started to become clear judging just needs to disappear We're all just human & the same on the inside despite what secrets we choose to hide they're hidden away in fear of being labeled a certain way unfortunately not everyone is comfortable standing out but that's really not what it's about really they can't handle the cruel attack since their self-confidence is something they lack people's criticism can be ****** & vile & a person can only take so much for a short while always assuming the negative is going to happen before anything even has a chance to begin their solution to their problem is this.... Any kind of change just ignore & dismiss avoiding it all together remaining the same, never changing & undercover, unhappy forever.