People seem to want
To be desired.
To be chased after.
To be fought over.
To be wanted.
Needed.
I want to be left the **** alone.
And I know, I know this is going to come off as ****** and unfair. But it's exhausting. I am. Exhausted.
Sure, you see the girl being fought over in the movies or being hit on in the bar and it seems almost magical and endearing, sweet and **** and you just want other people. To want you like that.
But having a friend send you phrases like "I'd very much like to kiss you" late at night when they're too drunk to know any better is not magical.
Having men rev their engines and yell things like "You're red hot!" as they gesture at you to take your top off from their pickup windows is not endearing.
Feeling like you owe someone something because they told you that you're attractive is not sweet.
And then being called vain and cocky and a ***** because you're confident in who you are and how you look, that's not ****. Being confident is ****. Being made to feel guilty about your confidence is not ****.
You do not owe anyone anything simply because you are beautiful. And you are. Beautiful. It's not ****** to choose to not respond to someone who is making you feel uncomfortable due to how they speak or look at you.
I don't want to be desired. Or chased after or fought over. I just want to be left alone to breathe. To take a breath. To simply live my life.
So boo hoo me. I'm attractive and I know it. But that's who I AM. My confidence and beauty is not a question for you to answer. It's my life. Let me live it.
I just need a little fresh air is all.