You will always end up hurt. I do not care how strong physically and mentally you are, there will always be tears shed and hearts broken. Because you cannot do something so physically intimate and expect it to not be mentally intimate. That is like jumping off a cliff and hoping you don't fall. You cannot make pretend love. You cannot look at someone and see them as an object. For they are not an object, they are human Someone will fall, and they will fall hard. They will spend their time praying that each kiss is real. They will pray that its more than just physical. They will pray that rough touches and loud moans are more than lust. They will spend their time hoping and praying that you will see them as more than a quick distraction, but, darling, this is not a fairytale. They will not fall for you all because you kissed them differently. They will not see you in a different light. For this started as physical and it will stay physical.
*(b.c)
No I have never been in this situation, but I know people who have