I am a flower on the broken bridge and you are the hand that places me in your hair, behind your ear, and you let me whisper all the awful reasons I was broken off from my stem and from my garden, and you let me cry about why I am a bad, bad, bad, bad, flower. And that is when you tell me that no fingers deserved to pluck me down to nothing. I have not lost my stem, but found a new one. You are my stem. And I am your flower. Some days, I will be your stem, and you will be my flower. And we can learn to grow ourselves our own new stems. Because it's not about the baggage, it's about who helps you unpack.