okay, but I don't 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 to be the bigger person. I want to be the person who looks out for their own needs. being the bigger person for what? the benefit of someone I hate? the benefit of someone I avoid in the halls? you don't 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒆𝒓𝒗𝒆 for me to be the bigger person- so I will throw my fits.
like what pride is there in putting yourself aside for the sake of someone who wronged you? im all good.