i was told that every poem is about death, ***, and love, never in that order. that it's our job to organize the chaos in a way that makes us feel as though we won't be forgotten when we're reduced to atoms and scraped, bit by bit, from every etch we've ever made and the earth retakes our homes, our names, our loves, lives, the lost. but it's just a feeling. what's important is embracing every curve, every laugh, every spat of anger. and learning. that hurt won't always last unless we let it.