They say blood is thicker than water And though that may be true in physicality The sentiment is bull I'm supposed to forgive someone For not protecting me when they should have Just because we share the same DNA? Why should someone have the power To emotionally abuse and manipulate me Just because we're related? Why can't I have the power to walk away And even when I have that autonomy Why does society judge me for my decision? Where is my say? They say you can't choose your family You can't choose where you're born into But I also didn't choose to be born at all So why does the extreme chance that I Just happened to be born into this family Have to secure me for life in an unhealthy situation? I do have another family And we do not share blood We love each other and Respect one other We don't abuse and neglect or ignore each other's needs We're there and We care. So why would I sit here and take this crap From someone who's supposedly family When I have so many more people That actually care And don't need to manipulate me To satisfy their own needs
Blood means nothing to me. I didn't choose this life, it was chosen for me. And I will not sit there and be emotionally abused and manipulated, disrespected and invalidated, just because someone shares some biological means with me. I choose my own family because I choose to love and respect myself, more than my blood-related "family" ever will