I will not accept anyone's definition on my life but my own
You are the only one who can define your own life, not anyone else. Don't let anyone tell you or make you feel otherwise. You're an individual, you have that right, you are unique. Say it loud, say it proud!
I'm still working on my self esteem, but I've learned that if I continue living to make others happy, I'll never be happy myself. So now I'll do what I want to do and grow. No matter what. For those with self-esteem issues, you're never alone. Just know that big and small, there is a difference in this world that on YOU can make. I wish you joy and happiness!