The place to which you escape. Sometimes our refuge is what we actually have to escape from. So many things bring pleasure that is short lived,trying to escape reality is not ideal. We live in reality and escaping it is an impossibility. How about we accept what we can't change and see light through some darkness?even when it hurts,take it as an exercise to strengthen your soul.its not easy but its always worthwhile.Hearts break but still pump blood,if you're not dead then there's hope.