Thinking of where they have been has made me realize that to me Thanksgiving has always been a day I spent with my family. The same people each year as they repeat their ancient tributes.
People idly stand around the kitchen-- around an island of food the same food each year: of salami, chips, crackers and an array of different cheeses ranging from simply American to pepper jack the one I've never seen someone eat.
It's a day where time has frozen albeit Thanksgiving day always changes, but the holiday always stays the same my family is a concoction of numinous ideas that when smashed together starts to combust.
It is where we relive our previous life a content collection of relatives who do not see each other that much, but on this day can realize the love we have.
Even as reality leaves the day behind and people begin to change this is the moment we'll always have because even when they leave for good it'll be our day to thank them for the time we had.
I've only spent this holiday with my family and the family all together, but for some they spend the day with all sorts of people. Just as my parents have spend the day with others. Time will stand still as it does for holidays, but at the same it will never stop going.