eight years. so much can happen. in our case, so much can be kept apart. "our case." "our" does not exist to describe us. there is no "us" or "we." there is only you and me. separate pronouns for separate people. I wish this were not so. if I'd had my way, we'd be twenty-five with a quaint little home two dogs one cat and a loving Church family. or we'd be seventeen with dates every night two hearts one love and an encouraging Church family. but I can't have my way. I can't have it all. and you are all. to me, in the most. but, she got to you first. she was born in '91. she was there through college, through hardships with your mother, through more than I know and ever could. she's been there longer. she's been there for years. I've been here twenty minutes in comparison. but I love you. no amount of time, experience, change, challenge, ridicule, nor age, could ever change the way my eyes melt when yours mirror mine.