The secrets of Art are esoteric in favor of those who suffer.
Sorry, that's just how it seems to be.
If you want to be an Artist, that is, a prism of the Other, know that in one way or another you condemn yourself to Pain and the beautification thereof.
That isn't a bad thing at all, though; we need to have more alchemy of pain into pleasure- Life is Pain and Pain begets Art; what if, then, Life is an Art?
I'd sure argue it is in one way or another.
Living with a Mind is an Art and a Science- could this be an element of why living is so afflicted by suffering?
Whatever the case, take heed; seek to grow from your Pain and not to completely avoid it; do not shut it away, for that feeds thy Shadow and undermines what control of it you may yet have.
Pain is usually an illusion but it serves a purpose; t'is a strict teacher, a cruel mistress- It can open many doors and bridge many gaps between this world and many others.
All the while, seek to minimize the pain of others and to do no harm to any living being, yet, allow them to experience what they do, for it serves a purpose if only they know how to find it.
This falls among the aspects of the Art of Life; so many have been forgotten.