sacrifice is my only advice you cant live life on safe choices you cant make money through unemployment you cant be smart without education take a risk know your losses know your wins count your flaws know your skills and your downfalls do what makes you happy is the most important thing of all you cant be happy with a ****** job your wife, your kids is what its for they might not be around for a couple years you have to look into your future like a fortune cookie predict what will happy like a crystal ball money doesn't make happiness but it sure as hell opens the doors