I want to break the paradigm of how pretty girls are dumb and I hate to see women surrender to men as if we were trophies and they could just brag about us and all our functions. Don't be one of those girls. Don't date a guy who wants you just because you're pretty. Don't settle for a man that compliments you on looks rather than personality. Look for someone who looks beyond your outer layer. Someone who listens, someone who dives into your soul, someone with whom you can melt into a conversation and lose track of time, agree to disagree. Don't be the side-girl of any man. Strive to be remembered as strong and independent rather than pretty but shallow.
Couples are supposed to be horizontal, not vertical. I don't lead and I don't follow. Looks fade, thoughts remain.