Recently The person I am now dating Has come to terms with His own trans identity When we met he looked like a girl But I could sense something within him Something that resonated with My own confusing feelings of gender I asked him if he was trans And at that point He used the term nonbinary I felt really excited about this Finally there was someone like me Who definitely was not a woman But never felt like a man either It was actually just a space in his journey And he eventually came out to me again It's my first time having a boyfriend Since coming to terms with my queerness And I love him deeply But it has not been easy Mostly because of the fact that His transition has led me To come face-to-face with My own repressed identity I have to address and recognize All of my internalized transphobia Most of which is aimed at the mirror Fueled by years of denying myself While I am definitely not a woman And have never felt like a man A lot of the time I feel like a boy And hope that I will pass as such I am finally ready to really listen to me And the needs of my identity To resume my rightful path On the road to being myself again