the most common question that you may ask someone is how are you? or how's it going? and i think that it's kind of pointless because nobody ever says anything other than good great or fine why do we ask questions about other people if we can't even answer it ourselves
i mean i don't want to be a burden or anything that's why i may choose to say i'm fine even when i'm not
i find that we as a community ask "are you okay?" whenever somebody is crying way more than we should because i mean
i don't want to create a scene so i'll stop crying and tell you i'm fine i told you i don't want to be a burden
i personally find that the term ish works quite well it's still not the full truth but i'm not a burden then either
so i think we need to either stop asking or start answering because life isn't always good great or fine