You hide behind a curtain of insecurity, blushing and allowing your eyes to fall to the floor when they give you kind words to follow and acknowledge. Deflection is a skill so fine tuned and honed that it's innate, a reflex built into your body. Yet you never stopped to think that they never had to say those lovely things and they chose to anyway because they truly believed them. Perhaps it's time for you to believe them too.
~~ "He didn't have to say that to you," is the best thing anyone could have said to me. ~~