Things I didn't have control of: -Mom&Dad; getting a divorce -My brother being sick -Mom having to leave for days at a time to stay at the hospital with my brother -Having a new mom and two new siblings -Dad living 45 minutes away -Dad not being there -Dad drinking -Staying at Grandma's when I was sick -That boy's actions and words in middle school -My step mom cheating on my dad -Losing three people that I had grown up with and loved -My brother passing away -Him cheating on me -My co-worker lying to our boss saying that I bullied her because I was best friends with her now ex-boyfriend -Another boy's actions when I told him I couldn't be in a relationship at the time -Him telling me that he doesn't love me anymore -Breaking my body in an accident and spending the entire summer recovering -Other peoples' happiness and comfort
Things I have control of: -How I react to the actions of others -My own happiness -The music I listen to -What I eat -When I work out and how hard -If my room is clean or not (which it usually is) -How I treat myself