Stop living your life like you're in some kind of a movie. Stop trying to cast your true love instead of just meeting them. Love isn't always a lightning bolt, maybe sometimes it's just a choice. Maybe true love is a decision. A decision to take a chance with somebody. To give to somebody without worrying whether they'll give anything back or if they're going to hurt you or if they really are the one. Maybe love isn't something that happens to you, maybe it's something you have to choose.
**True love is a process, not an event.
This is a paraphrased monologue by Britney Murpheys character "Jacks" in the movie Love and Other Disasters. I'm trying to give credit where is due, it's not quoted because it's not all exactly as it was said but for the most part its lines from the movie. Hope you like it, I thought it was quite inspiring.