?

i like your plants

plants grow well here

can you keep them happy

while you visit

your mom?

is there close by

a friend

you can trust

to water your plants?

live in your home

while you visit your mom?

why do you live

away from your mom?

fashioned by forces outside of personal control
its good to accept mystery as the building block
of a life spent in words you learned along the way

how difficult it is
   in a particular moment
to find the words
   that can articulate
   the general in the specific
and vice versa

when sensibilities are tense
words easily can be received
quite differently
from what they actually
were meant to say

   hearts can be shaken
   feelings hurt

it may require weeks
to heal the wounds
a turn of phrase has cut

   sometimes unknown
   by s/he who spoke

and then
   if deeds are not available
more words are needed
   to undo the harm
   old ones have wreaked

explain
   define
      and modify

to keep the dialogue alive
that circumscribes
   forever undetermined & opaque
what is in us
and needs to be

said  

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