I try to be happy—God knows I try.
I wear the smile, say the right words,
laugh when I should, nod when expected.
But it never feels real. It never feels mine.
Family gathers, voices rise, laughter spills.
They ask why I stay away,
why I choose the quiet over the noise,
why I don’t try to belong.
But how do I explain
that solitude is easier than pretending?
That I hold my distance
not out of pride, but out of self-preservation?
That I stay away so I don’t spill my pain,
so I don’t ruin their joy with my silence?
They call me distant, cold, uninterested.
They push, they pry, they force me into things
I once loved but now feel like burdens.
And when I resist, I become the problem,
the one who kills the vibe.
But they don’t know what lingers in my mind—
the thoughts that loop, the memories that bite,
the what-ifs that keep me up at night.
I make up stories that feel too real,
convince myself I’m losing it,
but maybe I’m not. Maybe this is just life.
And maybe one day,
they’ll sit around laughing, not noticing I’m gone.
Maybe they’ll call my name and get silence back.
Maybe they’ll wonder why I never said a word.
And maybe, just maybe—
they’ll finally listen.
This poem represents the silent battles of those who constantly try to appear happy while carrying unseen pain. It speaks for anyone who has ever felt out of place in their own circle, forced into spaces where they don’t belong, or pressured to engage when isolation feels like the only peace. It reflects the exhaustion of pretending, the fear of burdening others, and the deep loneliness of knowing that no one truly listens. For everyone who has ever felt unheard, unseen, or misunderstood—this is your voice, your story, your truth.