Carry a poem with you, always carry it deep in your heart and whenever you can, recite it, recite it silently with your tongue.
and when you find love it will amplify that love, and a thousand times stronger it will become, until another love walks into your path.
and suffering, never forget suffering, never forget it. Embrace it, embrace the pain as fully as you can and when the time comes, choose any poem from your heart and with a smile you'll be ready to depart.