You have to let go of the negative influences in your life before you wish things positive.
You have to wash away the dirt before you wish to be clean.
You have to let go of the last chapter in order to make a new one.
You have to rub your eyes in order to see clearly.
You have to have rain before you see a rainbow.
You have to breathe in order to live.
You have to love yourself before you can love someone else.