To be a man, is to face your fears everyday. Carry this meat suit in a dignified fashion. Question life and its maelstrom of sorrow. Forgive the failures of others.
To be a man, is to protect your friends. Hide your disgust at others happiness. Move unnoticed through a crowd of people who struggle everyday. Find, laugh and be merry with your best friends.
To be a man, is to know thine enemy. Prepare for your future trials by training the body. Always mistrust the ones you love. Pretend to feel empathy and recognize their true intentions.
To be a man, is to control your violent impulses. Never acknowledge the visions of killing that you see. Hold back the feeling of tears when spoken kindly to. Never help the destitute.
And when I stop being a man. And the facade finally breaks. And the families who stabbed me in the back, come for more. And when everyone has quietly left me. And I am now the destitute. I cradle my body. And tremble alone.
A poem I thought up. Very harsh, but very easy to relate to imo. Hope you enjoy it, though I wouldn't.