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Jun 2018
When you have an argument with your partner, keep it private and don't announce it for everyone to know, especially on social media. Be mature and handle the conflict internally by talking to each other, not talking about each other because not only will it leave a negative impression about you, but your relationship as well.
Talk about your problems and not about your partner. Too many people don't realize the damage it causes by letting their anger take control of them. Be mindful of your partner's emotions because they are hurting just as much as you are. Settle down, take a deep breath, clear your angry thoughts, and have an open discussion on how to solve the problem instead of pointing fingers and blaming who's at fault.
Remember, words can leave serious wounds so be careful with what you say when you're angry. Understand that your partner is also vulnerable when you're arguing so don't add fuel to the fire by lashing out and saying hurtful words.
When you begin to understand that communication is important, you will learn to respect your partner's feelings more and you will consider hearing their side of the story and listen to what they have to say instead of just forcing your own beliefs all the time.
It's not about who's right and who's wrong, it's about resolving the argument as peaceful as possible without hurting each other's feelings that could lead to resentment or even worse, break-ups. It's important to keep your relationship's privacy especially when you're both at your weakest during misunderstandings and fights.
Weather the storm together and keep your partner under the umbrella. Don't let them walk under the rain.
lilhadi
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lilhadi  27/M/Riyadh, SA.
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