In the heart of us are a set of bagpipes that blows the beat of a drum but is described as a hollow *****, like one in a church that echoes deep whalesong in the midst of a funeral. Our mom had rules for visiting the newly departed, lest their spirits attach to ours: Take home no food, or the dead will hunger. Wash your clothes, or the dead will wear your skin. Donβt go straight home, or the dead will follow. Starved and naked, we wandered through IKEA and nearby coffee shops to deposit our lost and beloved friend in a final resting place before heading home our empty and quiet home.