Should I wait sometime to tell her how I feel for her? If so, when does the coral reef know when to spawn? They say on the fifth night after the November full moon. Her birthday is too far away to see from here; her eyes: two flashes of light on the horizon. My mother and sister mentioned I stay still 12 weeks, Lao Tzu said until my mud settles. Tamia and Charmaine insisted now. I looked to Rumi, and he smiled back patience. A patient person does not have to ask how long? And here I am: counting the minutes between her texts, on her replies as breaths; poring over the pictures of her - in my hand, in my mind. One moment she feels close, the next she is the grain of sand I try to keep in my palm. Patience is praise, says Rumi. In it the right action will arise, added Lao Tzu. That is where I must be, whispers my heart.