think about how we see ruins as beautiful like the Acropolis or the Colosseum and Pompeii, though they’ve spent years and years breaking, crumbling, disintegrating, until all that’s left are fragments of what it used to be but we still see it today with awe and admire all of its glory
and i think maybe it’s the same with people it’s easy to fall in love with the remains of something you did not see fall apart first.