*Here it is: they believe by some decree that if a marriage must happen at a church, no one by any means should question this word: have you ever even heard? They want to protect their supposed right to decide not to help marry the gays-even from a distance! Even if it's not at their church! They believe that somehow it's by religious opinion they are outside the law, that it doesn't need apply to them. "Be abused" all you want, but if you want my thought, not to be blunt, it's just an excuse to treat gays differently, get our way-when it comes to marriage, how great their immaturity!