Today was the day after the big news. Two days after what once could have been a harmless phone call. Two days ago, however many years ago, a late night phone call stopped the world from turning. My world screeched to a halt two days ago but there was hope. Hope that the phone call was wrong that he would come back to us. Hope that he would have changed, changed his mind and outlook. But yesterday, however many years ago, all hopes shriveled. A follow-up call that he would never come back. That I would never see him hug him or hear him again. Today is the day, however many years ago, the reality of losing my uncle would begin to set in. When I would begin to fear phone calls after nine. When I would curl into a scrunched ball trying not to scream out. When I would never be able to look back without at least some remorse.
Today is the day, in the here and now, that I still cry for him.
Yesterday (as of 16 minutes ago) in 2006, my family received the news that my uncle had been found deceased after completing suicide. It is probably one of the few things I find difficult to talk about.