There are too many songs written about love. What about putting ourselves first and caring about security? Can one be happy without a great significant other? Sure love is great. I like the songs that are about all the great complications. Music beats any unpleasant noise. The notes and lyrics beat any whining. Feelings are ignored since there is too much and too many people to deal with. Listen to the music. Not every message will be right for all. Write your own music. Express your feelings no matter the lack of common share. To the alternative acoustic who writes about their newborn child. For the rapper writing about the children in the neighborhood without a chance. The opera singer who sings for when we let go. The pop star who expresses the joy of being single again. And how about the rock star honoring their new electric guitar. So many feelings, so many meanings. Forget the right and wrong. Just listen, write, and feel.