The Right One? It's Not About Finding, It's About Building

There's no perfect match, no pre-ordained soul, we shape our love, honestly, you won't truly know until you take a risk  and your partner has to take a risk too. It has to be mutual.  While that might not answer your question directly, living together under one roof will give you a much clearer picture. You'll learn so much more about each other when you spend that much time together.

Wala naman kasing right person satin talaga, tayo ang bubuo sa isang tao to be the right person for us, kaya ibigay mo kung ano makakaya mo for that person it takes more process kasi, di natin masasabi na nasa tamang tao ka eh lalo na if  months palang kayo sa relasyon.

But, if you're strong enough to fight for your love, even though you didn't know how it ends, maybe that's the time you'll know if your in the right person, I mean I don't know, but for me the longer your relationship is the more chances of knowing if you're in the right person or you're not.

That person that does not give up despite your flaws and lackings is for sure the right one according to me but that does not mean i should let my flaws affect him because this is love i would give my everything to keep him from going through my difficulties or atleast carry him as well.

As we grow and change, our priorities, values, and needs evolve what we seek in a partner at 20 might be different at 30, 40, or beyond.  So, the "right person" for us might also change with time we're always learning and growing, and our ideal partner might evolve alongside us.  Someone who might not have been a good fit earlier in life could become a perfect match later on. It's important to stay open to the possibility of meeting "the right person" at any stage of life.  Don't limit yourself to preconceived notions of timing.

In our early Adulthood this is often a time for exploring relationships, figuring out what we want, and finding a partner who aligns with our values and goals.  Many people find long-term partners during this stage. In midlife this can be a time of reflection and reassessment. People might be looking for a partner who shares their life experience, values, and maturity. Later Life  this stage can be a time for companionship, shared interests, and mutual support.  People might seek a partner who complements their lifestyle and interests.

It's not just about age, but about readiness being ready for a relationship isn't just about age it's about emotional maturity, self-awareness, and knowing what you want in a partner this can take time to develop, and it can happen at different ages, our life circumstances, such as our career, family, and social circles, can also influence our readiness for a relationship.  It's important to be in a place where we're open to a commitment.

Not our best selves, some nights.
Uncertainty hangs heavy,
a weight unknown,
a path unclear.

Words fail,
a tangled mess,
unable to capture
the feeling's essence.

Lost, adrift,
uncertain of self,
uncertain of place
in the lives of others.

Yet, even in darkness,
a comforting truth persists:
loved, remembered,
held in hearts.

Sweet memories,
gentle whispers,
a name on the tongue.

Rough nights, harsh nights,
pain without reason.
But they pass,
always they pass.

And return,
in softer form,
a sweet surrender
to slumber's embrace.

Better will come.
We will be better.

This knowing, a bittersweet art,
To let you go, tear my heart.
Though love runs deep, a fervent stream,
Our paths diverge, a fading dream.

No matter how hard we strive and yearn,
Our destinies twist, lessons we learn.
Acceptance dawns, a quiet grace,
The best things rarely find their place

In straight, predictable lines,
But in crooked paths, where true beauty shines.
So take your road, though winding and steep,
Towards your dreams, your secrets to keep.

For doing what's right, a solemn vow,
Sometimes means letting go, somehow.
To love someone, set them free,
To soar and grow, wild and glee.

Let them become more than they could be,
Beyond our reach, eternally.
This letting go, a love's true test,
A silent blessing, truly blessed.