my aunt miscarried in october. i remember thinking: strange, her baby died in the month when the dead were supposed to come back to life. her face sags more now, it's almost as if the baby tugged at every inch of her on its way down to the underworld. my uncle has gained a few pounds, too. the weight of absence sits heavy on his once muscular shoulders. i thought i tasted true sadness when he left me, but i didn't account for the bitterness of having to sell baby shoes never once worn. my aunt still has her list of favourite baby names hanging on her bedroom door, but she turns it around some days when she's feeling extra sad. my uncle doesn't talk to my aunt much anymore. i wonder if he blames her. i wonder if he blames himself. i wonder why the world takes things from you too early on, and if you complain you're thought of as a bad person. i wonder if you stop living when part of you dies.